Been lurking for a while, thought I'd share a simple reason why patriarchy theory don't real.

Patriarchy theory is problematic in that its label is inconsistent with its definition. Most proponents of patriarchy theory will readily admit two things when presented with common arguments against the theory:

  • "Patriarchy hurts men, too." When male oppression is pointed out in such a way that its existence can't be refuted.
  • "Women can be complicit in perpetuating patriarchy." When female privilege is pointed out in such a way that its existence can't be refuted.

So if this structural oppression is perpetuated by both men and women and results in the oppression of both men and women, then why do we call it "patriarchy", which is suggestive of more unilateral oppression by men of women?