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What is Financial Abuse

DougDante

March 17, 2022
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Title What is Financial Abuse
Author

DougDante

Upvotes 8
Comments 9
Date March 17, 2022 10:19 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/tglxx0/what_is_financial_abuse/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/what-is-financial-abuse.1107065
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Comments

[–]AirSailer 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your partner takes any money earned from you and controls where you spend it.

TIL: Most of the men I know are being financially abused.

[–]OldEgalitarianMRA 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

My wife and I exchanged personal vows that are not enforceable in court. I wanted 50/50 custody if we should split up. She wanted control of the finances.

My ex-wife became very ill and made the mistake of paying all our bills twice. This put us negative thousands of dollars in the bank. I had a conversation with her and let her know my opinion is to have me pay the bills until she gets better.

The next morning she left me and accused me of financial abuse taking our son 8 hours away, I assume to discourage me from seeking 50/50.

I think it's rare cases of people so controlling finances as to cause psychological and financial damage to the other party.

[–]tenchineuro 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

if we should split up. She wanted control of the finances.

Wait, you gave her complete control of your finances should you split up?

[–]OldEgalitarianMRA 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No. While we were together. In other words she paid the bills and knew the bank account balance. I earned significantly more than her. I wasn't worried about it, we lived pay check to pay check. When she left my lawyer told me to empty the bank accounts which I did. That really pissed her off.

[–]tenchineuro 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah, OK. The juxtaposition of those two sentences was misleading.

[–]maxlvb 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is:

“Justice therefore dictates that if a woman makes a unilateral decision to bring pregnancy to term, and the biological father does not, and cannot share in this decision, he should not be liable for 21 years of support. Or, put another way, autonomous women making independent decisions about their lives should not expect men to finance their choices.”

Karen DeCrow feminist lawyer.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karen_DeCrow


If women’s partial responsibility for pregnancy does not obligate them to support a fetus, then men’s partial responsibility for pregnancy does not obligate them to support a resulting child.

Elizabeth Brake, political philosopher


  • I don’t believe there is anything good about feminism that seeks to enslave men in name of a women’s right to choose.

  • It doesn’t make sense to respect women who treat men like an ATM.

  • Feminists feel the same way about forced parenthood responsibilities as they feel about forced genital mutilation. As long as it's not happening to women, they don't care.


And this:

https://time.com/3222543/wage-pay-gap-myth-feminism/


The gender pay gap is a useful measure when trying to understand differences in pay between men and women, due to its simplicity. But this measure is limited. It doesn’t account for men and women doing different jobs or working different hours. It also doesn’t account for personal characteristics that can influence pay, such as qualifications and age, Mr Broughton said.

Wednesday, 15 August 2018, 11:08 am

Press Release: Statistics New Zealand

http://www.scoop.co.nz/stories/BU1808/S00460/gender-pay-gap-is-second-smallest.htm

[–]tenchineuro 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What is Financial Abuse

When you don't give the woman what she want?

[–]haikusbot 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What is Financial

Abuse When you don't give the

Woman what she want?

- tenchineuro


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[–]Starforce2005 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Financial abuse is men saying no to women's entitlement to their property

According to the law voted by the feminists

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