So my last PSA went well so here's a follow up from a fairly effeminate gay guy with lots of female "friends"

  • Why women you are with complain when you succeed.

My female friends do this to me and I see them do it to their partners. As Men we give each other shit but generally try to lift each other up and push each other to do better.

My female friends tell me "get drunk, don't go to the gym, eat whatever you want, you're beaautiful no matter what, if they don't want you it's their loss".

As a below average gay guy, I am very aware that none of that is viable advice for me in the dating market or life in general.

Watched my beautiful gym bunny PHD genetics friend (IDK how he did it all, amazing dude" get a bleach blonde alcoholic politically active girlfriend. She convinced him to stop working out, eat trash, drink regularly, etc.

He told me one night he wished he was gay cause I was the only one who pushed him to do better and he felt like she was just trying to make him complacent.

When I would talk to her, she would obliviously confess that she hated her own body but rather than work out and eat right, it was easier to drag him down to her level.

TLDR: Never take "advice" that involves being complacent or happy with being mediocre. Don't let a girl try to drag you down due to her own insecurities