i need to cry in someone's arms - i dont think that makes me weak, or means i have issues or anything. i need affection. men cant be "on" 100% of the time and i genuinely feel that if women cant handle me at my goofiest or saddest then they dont deserve me at my strongest. i wish this was what the red pill propagated. before you guys assume im some loser - maybe i am but im sick of being used for sex or money. is there a such thing as a genuine connection out there other than some arbitrary sense of "value"