Basically, I think we focus too much on why, instead of on how.

My main point:

Whatever traits that the blue/red/purple pill says is the blame for mens(womens? I don't see much talk about womens relationship woes here) bad results in dating is probably false. at the very most, you could say that these traits are over represented in these men. But I think most people that have these traits probably have fulfilling, however that might look like, relationships. Whatever problems that these people have probably lies in knowledge of how to get what they want. What to say, what to do, where to go.

Everything else is, quite frankly, a question of what dating pool you should fish in.

The sucky thing is that there is so little practical knowledge to find.