Inability to make small talk isn't neurodivergence, you're just boring. Asperger spectrum isn't keeping you from finding a relationship, you just aren't a good dating prospect. Most people on the Spectrum are in relationships. Men aren't afraid, or intimidated by your neurodivergent intellect, you're just insufferable. Women aren't having a hard time relating to you because you're autist omega level intellect is unrelatable, you're just a douche If all your relationship are problematic, you're the problem.