I see this term come up in discussion a lot. Guys worrying about the ghost of dickmas past. As a reason to avoid women, or high n count women. I've always marveled at the ability of some guys to self cuck in present tense about past tense situations. I wonder does the same apply to women. Should it be as big a red flag to women, as it is to some men? Women, do ever self cuck, and is it as big of deal to you?