We will discuss the variants of persona acquisition from the cultural ensemble of "authenticity".

There is often times a breaking down of the efforts people (men) make in life as "bare minimum" but lets today understand that this "normalcy" is the "bare minimum" - in short without it - nothing is really worth it - or it becomes a herculean effort of a saint or a nun to get along with the duties that Love may command from its wild throne.

So onto the point. What point?

Normal guys are absolutely cool.

If we take a streetwise Rebecca type, degree - job/career switched on to her dynamic social life hitting her stride final form glow-up from what 23 to 30 on the high-point of being an adult human women with all the trials and tribulations of life now gifting providence what does she need from a man?

That is subjective or so the doctrines of our time say, individuals ye all be, though this is a most doubtful conjecture - people are conformists at heart. And wisdom is never new - forget the world of truth and enter into a singularity of self-denial, but these points can be levelled at any avenue of choice.

I mean, who cares.

Not the,

Man at ease with his limitations, his expectations and desires - at peace with himself in his "small world" his immediate space of existing on that which he knows is at any moment to be snatched away by the events of life has one gift to give - acknowledgement of the inherent value of others to witness in the eyes, the speech and the acts of his potential woman her worth to him and to the world they live small and trivial in the grand scale it might be, but it is their solar system of infinite complexity - in that the average Adam strives to witness awe in everyone, even though he is downcast at times by not being born a King but shall embark to live as the best of men within his capacity.

Advice from Average adam on tinder dates

Wear a t-shirt that has written on it "A clean kitchen is its own reward" And she will be a sheath for thou sword.

From "The Wit of Average Adam" by J.J Brahms