Why him and not me?

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-02-20T19:49:52+00:00

Removed for low effort

Da_Famous_Anus · 2022-02-20T19:30:52+00:00

I think a large issue with this is - why can’t you or won’t you answer this? Are you ashamed that it involves something superficial? Are you afraid of being exposed for seeing things a certain way?

What is this whole questioning of do guys really want to know? I mean they asked the question in the first place. How do you flip it around and put it on guys by doubting it?

Firstly, they can get an answer that helps them move on. Secondly, guys want to know what works. Guys are willing to put in the effort. Guys are willing to make changes. Guys sincerely want to know what will make them slightly more effective at being successful with women. They’re not trolling when they ask this.

It might be hard for you to face these questions. It’s not hard to understand why guys ask them.

xxjas346xx · 2022-02-20T19:29:31+00:00

There are plenty of studies to back-up that men who are taller, more muscular, facially symmetrical, higher income, etc. are more desirable to women. Sounds more like YOU just came here to vent like the exact people you’re criticizing

ZealousidealAd7191 · 2022-02-20T19:34:37+00:00

The question is the answer…

Mobrowncheeks · 2022-02-20T19:40:05+00:00

Why do you care? Women seem to have A fascination with what the men they reject have to say.

What difference does it make if men believe that the reasons for failure are things that can be seen like looks money status, height, timidity, social cues , or anything.

A dude who is 5’4 and 230 pounds , no matter what you say with his personality ( which is incredibly offensive to suggest someone’s entire inner identity and being is the issue) will always know that his heigh and weight make him a settle at best, and disregarded completely on average.

caption291 · 2022-02-20T19:30:16+00:00

there are no overarching themes or traits women share which can explain chemistry or the lack thereof.

Based on what data are you making that statement?

There is no data to answer this

Got it.

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UnfurtletDawn · 2022-02-20T19:45:52+00:00

Because she likes him more.

Title	Why him and not me?
Author	hemaristhysbe
Upvotes	4
Comments	16
Date	February 20, 2022 7:21 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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