I (30M) have been single for about 6 months now. My last relationship lasted almost a year but it turned toxic towards the end (she cheated on me & was very emotionally unstable).

Anyways I’ve been back in the dating arena lately and have dated several different women in the past few months. The problem I’m running into is that I’m overly picky. The women seem like great women (Christian, stable jobs, lean conservative, etc.) but I lose interest after a few dates. I get bored, start nitpicking or don’t feel that strong physical attraction.

It feels like I have to pick between dating an emotionally stable woman (who kind of bores me) or a physically attractive woman (who isn’t as stable & likely not a good long term partner)

Can anyone offer some guidance or perspective on this? I’m most interested in hearing from people are who actually in a long term relationship or marriage themselves.