A slut defined: A guy's perspective

m_sobol · 2013-12-12T04:36:19+00:00

When I see this topic again, I go back to this thread: http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1j0n7t/the_slut_and_how_not_to_be_one/

A slut is a woman whose sexual market value consists mostly of sexual availability, and little else.

A slut can be held in low regard, as you say, because they have nothing worthwhile than their sexuality to keep a man.

A person with nothing else may flaunt their sex in public, without much reserve, because she's got nothing else of worth.

It's these wanton public displays of exhausted desperation which degrade her public character and lead to such distaste in our mouths.

A sexually active and honest person isn't a slut if she's honestly congruent and upfront. A promiscuous person that's dishonest to even herself concerning a sense of spiritual tact can be called a slut.

GrayFoxHops · 2013-12-12T01:29:37+00:00

Well as a guy, I have no problem with women being open about their sexual desires, or comfortable with the idea of sex. I think sluttiness is more about having no perspective of morals in regard to sex. It's no problem if a woman wants to have sex. The complications arise when she is in a relationship and wants to have sex with random people, or she wants to have sex with someone who is in a relationship.

ygguana · 2013-12-12T05:17:41+00:00

Is a man who is promiscuous also a slut? What's a term for a guy who fits the above category?

darklogic420 · 2013-12-12T04:05:42+00:00

I hold up to you two women:

One is a woman who is newly initiated to sex, and wants to explore it only with her man. He is her first, and he will will be her last. She is the subject of many romance novels.

The other is a woman who knows what her body wants and her body doesn't care about who so much as what and how much, but it certainly craves often. She has had many partners, and will have many more. She is honest about this, and her partners know what to expect from her. If she ever settles on one man romantically, she might not have the willpower to remain monogamous unless he brings enough prowess to the table to compete with the crowds that have left parts of themselves etched in her memory.

There is nothing inherently wrong with either of these women, at all. Some men actually prefer the second woman to the first because she is honest and down to earth, and probably doesn't have the exasperatedly romantic expectations of the first.

But:

If the second woman decides to lie and pretend she is actually the first woman, then and only then is there something truly morally wrong with her character.

sugarcrush · 2013-12-12T03:14:07+00:00

I think you make a good point, but Personally I would distinguish between trashy and slutty. You can be trashy and not slutty, slutty and not trashy, or the horrid combo of slutty and trashy:

Trashy: openly gossiping about your sex life (whether you're gettin' some or not)

Slutty: promiscuous

Trashy and slutty: openly gossiping about your promiscuous sex life

I advise avoiding all but particularly the third.

Zone752 · 2013-12-12T02:03:34+00:00

Why do you have to disrespect someone (man or woman) just because they are open about their sex life? You should realize that people have different goals/values in life. Just because they don't want to be like you and find "the one" doesn't mean you have to disrespect them. What makes you so much better? Your "innocence"? Not everyone cares about that.

Title	A slut defined: A guy's perspective
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Date	December 12, 2013 1:14 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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