Hello, I have a question for you. This week my fiance and boyfriend of almost five years admitted being unfaithful to me and broke up with me. This really hurt me. We were planning wedding and family together and he betrayed me. It's true that the last two weeks we were arguing with each other a little bit more but I'm sure if we sat down and had a proper conversation we could resolve all the issues. However instead he started spending a lot of time with a woman who has the hoe reputation. I told him that if he stops meeting her and rectifies what he's done I'll forgive him and we might start again but he refused and told me his cheating on me was a consequence of me not giving him enough emotional support. Maybe I failed few times but I still think we could overcome this problem. But instead he started looking for pleasure in the other woman. I feel really let down and my heart is shattered to pieces. I always thought that if I treated my partner with respect and was good to him he would appreciate it and there would be nothing that could go wrong with our relationship. I'm aware I failed from time to time but I had the will to improve it. Instead I ended up like this. It's really difficult because it's turned out that no rule works for hundred per cent. My question is how to avoid something similar in the future? I really yearn for true love but after this experience I feel a bit traumatized.