During my web wanderings, I found various facebook groups and websites that offer a perspective on being a high-value woman.

Giordana Toccaceli is one of the spokeswomen for these ideas that male leadership/commitment is best brought out by being a high-value feminine woman.

She wrote recently on her facebook page: "And a High Value woman also highly values herself. A high value woman can only be high value to a man when she deeply values her heart, her wellbeing, her inner world and feelings, and cares for herself through self-care, self-acceptance and self-leadership." While some of the people that write about this are a little woo-woo with the goddess and energy talk, I've found some of her nuggets invaluable in that she says that a woman's openness, radiance, and support for a man's leadership are dependent on clearing out bad patterns, avoidance, and stuffing down emotions. You can find her stuff via google and facebook.

I was interested in knowing of self-care or inner work that y'all have undertaken to improve your relationships.