Hey everyone. Long time lurker here. I really appreciate the existence of this sub and now I'm looking for some advice.

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My SO (34) and I (28) are a couple of 3 years. We have a great relationship with well defined roles and I love him more than anything in the world. We also have a healthy sex life and from the beginning SO pretty consistently has been a sex-once-a-day kinda man. Of course with additional BJs from time to time.

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But recently there was a sudden and intense change in his sex drive. Over the last two months we went from once a day to about 4 times a day. Due to the frequency we have sex now he also gained more stamina and giving him the pleasure he needs became more time consuming.

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I really don't want to appear like a complainer but I have to admit that this has become very demanding. At the end of the day I sometimes lie in bed and can't keep my eyes open from exhaustion. But at the same time I feel great because I really want to do my best to give him what he desires. I sometimes wonder if my SO is testing me, my commitment to please him and how important his needs are to me.

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I briefly talked about this with my best friend. Even though she's no RPW she usually tries to be supportive. Sadly on this subject she denies a woman's duty to satisfy her man and that sex can be that important.

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I have not talked to my SO about this and to be honest with myself, I always had a problem with knowing when to keep my mouth shut. So I'm insecure whether I should bring up the topic of his increased libido at all or if I should just shut up and do the best I can to keep up with his needs and please him.

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Your thoughts are very appreciated.