Hi All!

I would like your advice on a situation that excites me and I do not want to get my emotions get in the way of what's at hand so please let me know your thoughts on how best to go forward with this. FWIW i am looking for a serious relationship and am 25. I do not want to waste time / do not want to add to n count.

Anyways, I met a guy on vacation recently. My friend and I were walking down the street, we struck up a conversation and we ended up getting drinks with his friends at a bar and dancing a bit to some music.

After that we went back to his vacation house ( it was in the same subdivision as my friend's condo ) enjoyed some great conversation for what was a long time, about 5 hours ( we talked in depth about family, work, etc. ) and he told me he really liked hanging with me and would like to visit me after vacation was over! I thought he was just saying that to make me stay the night or something (which I didn't) and said yeah ok and kind of blew it off.

Anyways, we left and the next day he asked to meet up before my flight. I was staying with a friend and she had no interest in taking some time out of our way to airport to see him (understandably). So we just ended up texting and that was it.

And then comes yesterday - he is now home too and texts me that he misses vacation. We talk about what we both like to do for fun, our family, work, in depth conversation. I am confused on where this is going but say to myself in a week if he doesn't make plans to see me I am going to stop talking to him.

Today rolls around and after a bit of conversation, he is asking which dates work best for him to come visit. We chose a weekend in three weeks and he said he would stay at hotel and would like to do dinner. He is looking into flights, etc. etc. He hasn't officially booked anything yet but plans are in the works.

My question for you all is - is this too good to be true? Moving way too fast? I honestly feel OK about it but don't want to be delusional. Is he only out for one thing? He is in his early thirties, relatively attractive, has a good job, family money (multiple homes, family trust, etc.). I am an above average looking female, good job, working class, athletic. I am just confused bc he probably has a lot of options at home - why is he traveling to see me especially after only 1 evening of seeing each other?

I googled him and everything checks out. Plus we were with his friends and the subdivision where we were - he had to give his name for access into it. I don't think he's lying about anything (yet)

Any input is appreciated.

Thank you.