I decided to start dating again, with my focus being building attraction and practice being more feminine and refining my own dating skills. Been pretty successful, I’ve been dating multiple guys and been enjoying my time. Not keeping all my eggs in one basket, but not having casual sex (not yet, at least. I’m also immunocompromised so that just complicates it for me lol)

Anyways, I’m working on practicing building my value/being vulnerable/enforcing my boundaries/building attraction. Of course, I got one guy who is real hot and cold, and of course I’m very attracted to him. We planned to hang out, but he said he was sick and cancelled last minute. But then he snap chatted that he was at a friends birthday dinner. I didn’t react, but he knew I saw it and texted me. I do believe he was sick, and honestly bc I’m immunocompromised I hate being around sick people and he knows that. Sort of felt EH about it, started pulling away and of course he starts talking to me more. Asks to meet up for a drink, what do you know I don’t hear from him but he ends up at his friends and texting me saying he misses me. At this point, I’m just doing me bc he clearly either thinks I’m stupid or he is just dumb himself. I’m thinking that next time he asks me out, I’ll say something such as “I feel great when I hang out with you, but I’m scared and nervous to make plans because you’ve ditched me twice. And I am looking for more regular dating, and I’m not interested in someone who hurts my feelings and makes me feel sad”

I hate ghosting but I also want him to know my value. I’m thinking I will give him ONE LAST CHANCE if he even asks me out. I just want to keep things positive and warm, even if he’s being an idiot because I don’t know his life. Lol does this make sense?