Question about "The Wall"

_wingnut_ · 2014-07-09T23:36:19+00:00

I think what you mean is, will you hit "The Wall" to your husband. You will hit the wall, men will stop noticing you slowly by age cohort until one day they don't notice you at all. That's when women discover what it REALLY means to "just be treated like a human being".

If your husband still has warm loving feelings for you he will have "wife goggles" for you. He will see you like no other man does. Beware, you can break those goggles by being atrocious, sometimes forever.

FleetingWish · 2014-07-09T23:41:57+00:00

The wall, being the idea that you can no longer attract men the way you used to, is not something you need to worry so much about, because you've already got someone. When you get someone to make an investment in you the history, and emotional investment, they have with you makes them unlikely to drop you in search of someone new and younger, which is the case with single women past the wall.

However the wall, being the idea that your looks are declining, is something you should be aware of. Even though your looks declining is something you have little control over, you should take all the control you have to keep yourself looking youthful as possible, as simple matter of respect for your SO.

PhantomDream09 · 2014-07-09T23:47:25+00:00

"The Wall" is simply when a woman's vitality begins to fade, and her looks have peaked. Women hit the wall at different times, and at different speeds. Some women age beautifully and work hard to become even healthier later on in life. Other women seem to age faster. The biological wall has been extended thanks to technology, so women can have children at an older age. Similarly, there are medical procedures women opt to undergo in order to appear younger. Getting older is natural, and the wall isn't something to fear in my opinion.

You are married, and assuming you have a stable and loving relationship - you shouldn't have anything to worry about. Don't worry overly much, live a healthy life, and love your husband to the best of your abilities. He's bonded to you, and although you may age, when he looks at you he will remember you as you were when you first met. Treat him well and you will always be beautiful to him.

j0hnan0n · 2014-07-10T06:06:21+00:00

You can move the wall. The better you maintain your health, fitness, diet, habits, mindfulness, etc; the better you push the wall back and deal with it on your terms. The better your relationship with your husband, the better he'll help you through the changes.

Obstacles (like walls) are there for us to demonstrate concretely how much we want something. Those whose desires are weak will hit a wall and give up. Use the bricks in your wall to build a path.

2014-07-10T14:14:51+00:00

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Title	Question about "The Wall"
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Date	July 9, 2014 11:29 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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