Virgin at 25

delight2985 · 2020-09-13T09:34:35+00:00

Calm down, dont panic. Thats not a problem at all. I lost my v at 23 and no panic. Women in panic chose bad men.

Exercise

Wear pretty clothes

Makeup

Invest in youself (interior and exterior)

There are a pool of men out there as long as YOU LOVE YOURSELF HEALTHILY.

Dis you ever checked Chloe_ youtube? Youre in need of some https://www.youtube.com/c/ChloeHypergamy

Youre not weird. Youre a healthy woman in search of happiness.

2020-09-13T10:26:37+00:00

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 25! Remember: You can always gain sexual experience, but you cannot "ungain" it. In my opinion, most men would be more concerned that you gave your virginity to a random stranger just to get rid of it, than if you kept it to your mid twenties. Also, as a virgin, it will be much easier for you to get a guy willing to wait until marriage, and if you manage to do so, you'll get to share a unique and deeper bond with your husband that other people might not have (since he will be the only man you've ever slept with).

2020-09-13T10:35:08+00:00

Interesting, I hear a lot of men saying "I waited too long and now I'm too old to find a fellow virgin at my age."

I think being a virgin will actually be of benefit to a lot of super traditional/religious men that want to lose their virginity together with their wife.

I really wouldn't worry about it. Be careful, because some men fetishise it and will try take your virginity then bail, but other than that, you should be fine.

TheWololoWombat · 2020-09-13T09:36:12+00:00

I’m a pretty decent looking (male) and was a virgin till I got married at 27 (personal choice)

I met a 29 year old virgin once who was probably a 6/10 in looks, but just had never found the right guy.

She’s happily married now and looks super happy.

No stress!

ihavechestpains · 2020-09-13T12:43:40+00:00

I would take this time to find hobbies and things you enjoy. Build yourself up and become the woman you want to be. While focusing on yourself you'll attract the right person who will want to be with you. There's nothing wrong with living at home. I'm 23 will be 24 soon and still live with my parents. My sister is around your age too and she's still with us. You have a degree which is a great accomplishment! You're not a failure just because you're not in the same position as your friends. Enjoy this time to yourself and save money so you can secure the future you want. I would also recommend Chrissie's youtube channel as well.

Tek_Analyst · 2020-09-13T12:50:27+00:00

Being a virgin is never a bad thing if you want a conservative man.

Uhtred_McUhtredson · 2020-09-13T11:57:08+00:00

I was a bit of a late bloomer myself and would have killed to have met someone on a similar page as me.

Trust me that there are plenty of decent guys out there here would be thrilled to meet someone like you. Not everyone is looking for an extroverted type of woman. Just have to look in the right places.

JadedByEntropy · 2020-09-13T16:28:12+00:00

Lots of good advice here. Ive seen couples in their 40s, 50s, both never been married, find eachother "late" and be perfect fits BECAUSE they learned how to live independently and work together with a spouse for a common good and not play games. Two complete people united. Not two broken people trying to hurt or prove things against eachother.

I second the fact that men highly value virgins, and not one man will say he wishes she had slept with more men first. But also it is hard watching all the friends get married and have families without even having a date yourself. It's a unique pain. A both-virgin wedding is the most unique wedding. Ive only seen a few, and everyone attending is in awe and supportive, not pity unless it's self pity that they didnt make it themselves.

Be careful about being outright and upfront about it. I never volunteered i was a virgin while dating because they do get really weird about it. You either become a target or they can get territorial and possessive-because they were immature and manipulative and very low quality themselves. Its a great filter, but the risk to self is high. They can gather as much over time by related conversations and it doesn't need to be announced first date or on the online profile! Dont make yourself a target.

I saw a chart that 5% over 30 are virgins, so its not rare, just hard to find.

Final tip: some guys are so fixed on virgins that once married, if the woman gets assaulted he will divorce her. No joke. Ive seen that happen too. Dont find that guy.

2020-09-13T14:31:41+00:00

I met my husband at 27, when I had only had one partner. I was soooo self-conscious and it was all for nothing, because he really appreciated the low number. Men who want commitment won't be bothered by this.

86redhood · 2020-09-13T17:25:54+00:00

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zaneee__ · 2020-09-13T15:08:40+00:00

i’m 25 male not a virgin and i haven’t really met anyone around my age that is a virgin but even if i did i don’t think that would matter at all, if anything it seems too good to be true lol, all my friends are married and have kids, i actually was in a 10 year relationship that ended last year, and it feels like i’m never gonna find suitable for me again but oh well take it as it comes

amergent · 2020-09-13T15:39:23+00:00

You're definitely not weird for being a virgin. It's refreshing, actually.

peculiarmiss · 2020-09-13T17:09:50+00:00

I met my husband when I was 28; we started dating when I was 30, and we had a baby 2 weeks after I turned 33. While I wasn’t a virgin, I hadn’t been with a man since I was 19, and he loves how many things he was my first for and that he got to teach me how to please him specifically. He also knew how inexperienced I was, and never pushed me to go farther than I was comfortable with.

They’re out there. You just have to put yourself out there where they can find you.

BeataBeatrix2005 · 2020-09-14T00:43:58+00:00

My husband was my first boyfriend. We met when I was 28. Been married 8 years with 3 kids. The right guy is worth waiting for.

2020-09-13T09:22:42+00:00

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whitexwolf89 · 2020-09-13T16:38:36+00:00

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Imthecoolestnoiam · 2020-09-13T16:52:35+00:00

Trust me, men dont give a fck whether ur a virgin or not. Even if ur 50 or 100.

Kev0219 · 2020-09-15T10:47:04+00:00

No man will ever find a woman weird for being a virgin. Don’t worry

whitexwolf89 · 2020-09-13T19:12:37+00:00

I could have written this at 25. I kept mine until I was 27. I wish that I didn’t worry so much about it, that insecurity attracts dusties like crazy.

Everyone moves and evolves at their own pace. You really are younger than you think. I’m 31, my mom is 62 and living her best life. I have an entire lifetime before me to have the things and experiences I want... and then some. And so do you.

I kind of wish that I had read “the art of seduction” when I was still a virgin. I would have known how to better play up my innocence. I also wish I would have waited longer, until I was really in love. I had gotten that far, holding out for “sometime real” just to give it away to some guy who happened to be around when I decided to “just do it”.

Also want to add, every one of my close friends from high school/college got married and had kids before 23. I felt a little envious of them for quite a while, as I’ve been single and living with a parent for quite a while. I didn’t appreciate the life I had created for myself. In my early 20s, I went to college and traveled the world. Then, I lived in a great city with lots of things I like, such as art and music. I had a job I loved and was learning and growing every day. I lived with my mom in the center of the city. Sometimes I would act like this was bad, tedious, inconvenient... but the truth was, we got along quite well. At 27 I stopped putting so much stress and importance on relationships and started casually dating. It was so much fun! And It was nice to know that my mom had my back and I always had an excuse to get out of a bad date. Also the older I got the more I learned that being a woman living with family is very different from a man at home. I am protected and valued by my family and have no need to stick around in a bad relationship.

It wasn’t until my best friend, pregnant with her third child, expressed to me the envy she had been hiding. She told me I was living this “sex in the city” dream life while she was on her third child, in a (mostly good) but also high pressure marriage, and no career or money of her own, living in a town hours from the nearest airport. Meanwhile I was feeling the same way with all the designer bags and perfumes her husband would buy for her.

Oh and also just found out that a couple I’ve known since they were in 9th grade... who have been together over 10 years and “perfectly married and settled” for 6 still have not had intercourse and are both virgins 😳- this is a whole other topic but it really showed me that the grass really isn’t greener...

2020-09-14T17:43:08+00:00

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throwaway23004345 · 2020-09-13T15:30:17+00:00

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Title	Virgin at 25
Author	suuu29
Upvotes	86
Comments	45
Date	September 13, 2020 9:20 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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