What should I do?

ardiana_hautmann · 2020-03-13T10:58:41+00:00

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Sobinia · 2020-03-13T11:52:33+00:00

Go. If he's inviting you out, it means he's attracted to you.

HB3234 · 2020-03-13T19:47:51+00:00

It is one thing to be a little insecure about a trait - that's pretty normal. It's another to be SO fixated on it that you want to avoid men who are desirable to you in order to avoid rejection. You should feel good about yourself, to where you think a man who likes you has good taste! ;) So, make a point to really really address your self esteem no matter which direction you go on this date.

If you go -- Just remember that if you're going in to a date with a mindset of "I hope they like me despite my flaws, I am afraid they will reject me" instead of "I hope WE get along and they meet MY standards", you are in a 'performance' mindset instead of an 'evaluation' mindset.

You can't vet someone well while treating the date like an audition. Unless your crush is an old friend, you probably don't really know this person - only the version you've created in your head.

Lean back and allow him to show you who he is, while being your own authentic self to him. No one is "wrong" if the compatibility isn't there.

organicsunshine · 2020-03-14T00:06:54+00:00

Never heard of a man afraid of being skinny-fished as opposed to fat-fished.

Poley04 · 2020-03-13T12:27:43+00:00

I'm going to try not to sound mean. Sorry if I fail.

What should you do? Meet him. Otherwise what is the point at all?

It will bother him or it won't. It will have nothing to do with you.

Only one way to find out.

logger8890 · 2020-03-13T10:43:37+00:00

Go, guys like smaller women. We feel more masculine, and weight is not so big of a problem.

pearlsandstilettos · 2020-03-13T11:56:42+00:00

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Title	What should I do?
Author	ardiana_hautmann
Upvotes	4
Comments	17
Date	March 13, 2020 10:05 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/fhxaqp/what_should_i_do/
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