10 Ways to Being a Better Beta

cagethepepper · 2013-12-07T10:35:58+00:00

Aka 10 steps to become a vagina.

mordanus · 2013-12-07T05:24:15+00:00

I have done everything in this post to a T. I eventually found the red pill because I started looking for reasons why she treated me so badly when I treated her so well. If you treat your woman like a queen she will treat you like a serf. She will walk all over you and your relationship will fail.

TheHatler · 2013-12-07T05:02:22+00:00

You may not always agree with everything your girlfriend says or does. But, mutual respect is the backbone of any healthy relationship.

Sounds good. Respect from both parties is important.

Speaking of backbone – respecting her wishes doesn’t mean sacrificing yours, but it does mean being willing to bend it a little bit for her.

Hold on, you're saying that men have to "bend" what they want so that women can get more of what they want? What happened to the equality you were just talking about?

You don’t always need to get your way. Plus, you might learn something from her.

"Let her do things you normally wouldn't because she is a women and deserves it."

drrrrrr · 2013-12-07T11:36:51+00:00

I love the whole "LISTEN" advice that women / manginas always give. Like yes, you should generally be listening to what other people say to you in that your ears take in the information. But this constant campaign to tell men to "listen, not speak" is BS because it's implication is that every word out of her mouth is some deep meaningful truth. It's pure vanity - women feel like they aren't special snowflakes when guys aren't hanging onto every word, and so guys hang on to every word.

Yet the simple act of listening to women and treating their words as if they are somehow more than smoke from the hamster-factory proves to her that you don't get it.

Truth is, 90% of the time, hearing what she says but not listening is the right call. Whether she is talking about her college trip to guatemala to save the world, or how Blurred Lines is so catchy but she hates herself for liking it, the best thing to do is general be listening with maybe 50% of your attention there and 50% elsewhere. She will constantly try to grab 100% of it - and you give it to her rarely, only when she does good. Then she will really feel it, she will have earned it and so it will mean something to her. When she has something real to talk about, she will actually appreciate that you are listening.

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LifterofThings · 2013-12-07T16:53:42+00:00

You can accomplish all this shit while not being beta.

Olipyr · 2013-12-07T15:27:15+00:00

I think 3, 5, and 6 actually work in our advantage in turning her on to us. I personally like number 8 for reasons.

For number three, kissing her all over WILL turn her on when you do it correctly. It of course has to be combined with slight dirty talk and, possibly, a risque environment.

Number five can set you apart if you do it correctly. Every guy notices the small things but how we approach it should be different from the other guys, such as a backhanded compliment.

For number six, it means I don't have to talk as much. I can choose my answers and direct her thoughts to where I want them. It usually will involve steering ever so slightly to a sexual topic, listening to her, maybe busting on her a bit for her answers. YMMV.

Number eight, well, it's the easiest way to get a girl naked in my bed.

Title	10 Ways to Being a Better Beta
Author	gibby6385
Upvotes	20
Comments	13
Date	December 7, 2013 2:23 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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