24yo virgin with no relationship experience, need advice and perspective

Fontess · 2017-01-13T08:12:50+00:00

I think the main problem is that you are too much into mentality that you need to have woman by your side to be happy. thats why Redpill is here. its much more than sexual strategy. You are still really young. In these 2 years lift, expand your social circle, practice social skills, ace your finish at university, learn about grooming and style. Develop new hobbies. Learn to be happy without woman by doing these things. And approach woman. Even if you get rejected, you are so awesome that you dont need that one particular woman in your life. Not when there are 3.5 billion woman in the world. Lets say you do all these previously written things in these 2 years. So you are 26 looking great, acting great awesome. Lets say you take 2 years to enjoy yourself with woman and then you decide do you still want to enjoy that lifestyle or you really need a comitted relationship to be happy. You can make all these changes and decision while you are still in 20s. Many werent that lucky. Many man married first bitchy slut who gave them attention and they are destroying themselves to make her happy. and they destroyed their lives.

2comment · 2017-01-13T08:20:24+00:00

Bro, do you even lift?

Afterwards, go to the closest whore house and get it out of your system. It's not that special, but you're pedalstooling sex or your first time itself. It will also help get all this useless monologue out of your head.

Btw, if it makes you feel better, many of my friends who married that special girl early on are either divorced now or unhappy in their marriage, girl often doesn't look that great anymore either.

AnjaJutta · 2017-01-13T08:39:55+00:00

You are currently closed off into a daily routine that ends every day with you being a virgin and loveless. Yet you crave love, affection, sex.

You crave these things because being a human also means being an animal. So, stop looking at sex and love as a higher intellectual pursuit and start looking at it as an animal need.

What do male animals do to get sex? They puff their chests, they expose flamboyant tails and feathers, they do intricate dances to show off their health and power.

Stop eating garbage and start lifting. Stop wasting your time masturbating to porn and start finding yourself mentors in your social circles that you can stick with and learn from.

My first real mentor was not my father. My captain in the army, a coworker and eventually a housemate gave me the knowledge I needed to go forward and have my first real relationship. The Red Pill made sure I remained on track.

TotalPigeon · 2017-01-13T09:02:40+00:00

Look up the gender SMV chart on the rational male. You are worrying because you are conditioned to think that it's wrong to found a relationship with someone younger than yourself, hence you have missed out on all the top tier pussy by your age and will have to settle for something beneath your idealistic disney princess fantasy. You don't have to settle for ageing women. If you play your cards right over the next few years you can do very well for yourself with the ladies for a decade or more.

Truth is no woman will ever meet disney princess standards. They all have their flaws and imperfections. The best thing you can do is forget about that dream entirely, as it will only holds you back as you wait and wait for your own little predestined story of love to play out. Fuck that shit. Believing in that fantasy is how you end up a beta provider at 32 for a post wall hag. Seriously, just go read all of the best of the rational male. Everything will make so much sense. Then go work on yourself.

WIDE_420lbs · 2017-01-13T10:23:01+00:00

You haven't messed up anything man.

So what no "dating experience", whatever that means. Most dates suck shit, most people are awful at dating. Women are awful at dating. Look how fucking big the relationship sub is, people asking for advice.

Don't measure yourself in that way.

Take control of your life. If you let others control you, they're dogshit at it. Most people are dogshit at control, keep as much as you can of control on your life. And become good at controlling YOUR life.

victor_knight · 2017-01-13T11:04:08+00:00

Yes, I have some advice. Check out the GenuineMGTOW sub. You'll learn a lot about how a man's life can be great without a woman.

Tamazin_ · 2017-01-13T12:16:52+00:00

Don't worry bro. I'm from Sweden which is more or less the country where people marry at the oldest age in the world etc.

When i moved to study at the age of 23 i hadn't been with that many girls sexually and only had 1-2 girlfriends for 3-4 years. Since then (i'm now 32m) i've gone to nearly 1000 dates, had sex with 30-40% of those and don't really feel a rush to get married.

As a guy your prime is in your 30ies. 18+ girls want someone older (so you being 26-32 is great), older women (38-40-ish) wants someone younger and the ones your age wants someone the same age. So no rush, your time will come. I suggest you start going out more with your friends, get some hobbies where you meet and engage in people and similar and you'll find the girl of your dreams soon enough.

calories_for_closers · 2017-01-13T09:31:40+00:00

Honestly, stay a virgin. It's one of the most unique and best things you can give to your spouse should you ever decide to marry. I'm sure this will be an unpopular opinion, but it's worth considering. My count is only with LTR girls, no pump and dumps. If I could, I would rather be a virgin than to have defiled myself with ex girlfriends. I'm being sincere when I say all this too; even as much as I enjoy sex. I would have preferred to not have done it with any of the past girlfriends.

Your choice though, friend.

Title	24yo virgin with no relationship experience, need advice and perspective
Author	GreatVibesMan
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	January 13, 2017 7:44 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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