Advice for a former omega guy

machimus · 2014-01-25T13:13:55+00:00

You know what worked great for me, is talking to random girls for no reason, just for small talk. You aren't hitting on them so there's no pressure at all. Plus after awhile it ends up being a great way to accidentally pick up girls, because the "no fucks given" game is super effective.

vengefully_yours · 2014-01-25T12:14:25+00:00

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2014-01-25T20:36:53+00:00

I got a job in college that requires lots of talking (cold calling alumni for money). It was great. You develop an ability to network, quickly establish a relationship, get paid, and it looks great on a CV. And you do this without having your physical attraction come into play and be a handicap or benefit. Once youve been rejected a few hundres times, talking to women becomes easy mode. You dont even need to be in college or at that particular college to score these jobs and the pay is decent for no degree (~10/hr counting bonuses). Thats more than I made in my first job after graduating

2014-01-25T20:41:23+00:00

Your focus is on meeting women when it really should be on meeting men. It's hard to improve yourself in a vacuum, just reading dubious material on the internet and trying to be more "alpha". Try to find friends who are more high value than you.

2014-01-25T17:13:08+00:00

I am quite inexperienced so when I try going to the club I can't really make progress because pretty much all women are in a group and don't seem approachable

my anxiety is pretty much gone

Get rid of the remaining anxiety. OP is also patient zero for /r/asktrp

snwborder52 · 2014-01-25T19:58:43+00:00

Everywhere.

Manuel_S · 2014-01-25T21:06:12+00:00

I'll tell you one way but you won't like it.

Sign in for one of those crappy sales things like herbalife or any such nonsense. Sell makeup if you have to on your spare time. They should start you on the basics, and you're forced to bullshit your way along.

Or sales anything, or working on a counter and being cocky & fun to pretty ladies.

SillyAmerican · 2014-01-25T21:25:32+00:00

Public space is always good. i ride the bus a lot and I love talking to women on the bus. The Gorcery store, the laundry mat, getting gas etc. Its really all about just getting comfortable initiating a conversation. Its cliche but just practice it. Theres got to be a moment where you say fuck it and rationalize you have nothing to lose. They dont even have to be attractive or even your age. Just TALK TO WOMEN. Any chance you get is a chance to practice. Youll find it time that you really do start to get good at it.

da-way · 2014-01-27T16:33:08+00:00

OP, please add flair. It helps with framing your submission and helps with signal/noise ratio.

Thank you

afcpoop · 2014-01-25T16:03:47+00:00

Being that young is inevitably omega isnt it? You have a few mire years to go son ;)

robesta · 2014-01-25T18:14:53+00:00

Screw clubs and even put pick up on the back burner a bit. If you're truly omega, you need friends/a social circle, both men and women. I'd recommend Co-ed social sports, activity groups and stuff like that. You need friends who you care about and who care about you.

2014-01-25T18:29:02+00:00

A manosphere blogger a while back wrote an exhaustive guide for folks at the bottom on how to get their shit together. It should be sidebar material if it isn't already.

Meglomaniac · 2014-01-25T17:46:24+00:00

I kinda have a rule in my life.

If I see a girl that I personally rate an 8 or higher. I MUST go and speak with her.

I dont care where it is but I will go and speak to her. Just talk to girls.

rpjacob · 2014-01-25T14:21:10+00:00

Lindy Hop/Swing Dancing.

IIHotelYorba · 2014-01-25T16:31:59+00:00

Bum rush. 100%.

Title	Advice for a former omega guy
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	27
Comments	23
Date	January 25, 2014 10:58 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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