After having a little think, I've discovered Relationships to me are pointless Right Now.

Piroko · 2014-04-02T12:34:02+00:00

I know nobody around here likes to hear it but there are some women out there who do try to embrace logic and control their emotions. They are still beholden to the same thirst for alpha cock but are blessed with some sense of introspection and can admit it when they are called out for hamstering.

There are also women who have been raised with a sense of integrity. In this age of venerated single-motherhood they are few and far between but there are a select few who have been taught the virtues of humility, hard work, and self sacrifice.

The problem for most guys is that they just look for tits, ass, and attitude. You want that hip-to-waist ratio on a tiny hot bitch who will do nasty shit. And that shit is fine if you're just looking to fuck, but if you're looking for a LTR then you need to raise your standards in more ways than one.

How does she treat strangers? How does she talk about her friends, family, and coworkers? How does she handle stressful situations? How does she talk about men and women in general? The common denominator here will be her parents and how they raised her. Women who were spoiled as children become like spoiled meat. Don't buy spoiled meat.

When you're looking for a LTR tits, ass, and attitude are still important. So is the hip-to-waist ratio. But equally important is her worldview and her view of herself. Is she a wannabe victim or is she a champion? Does she milk the foul or jump back up and brush it off? Who do you want to spend your time with?

I know I want my sidekick to be a fucking champ. With nice tits and a big ass.

Jaqar · 2014-04-02T12:22:36+00:00

You're going to do alright with that conclusion.

leftajar · 2014-04-02T19:36:25+00:00

You're on the right track.

Most chicks are a distraction. They will continuously try to pull you off your path. They will thwart your efforts at trying to raise your SMV, because they fear you leaving them.

I'm not doing relationships right now either. It would just distract me from the professional success I'm acquiring. Once I'm a muscular, financially-badass man, then I'll consider relationships.

cooltrip · 2014-04-02T20:27:44+00:00

My important, very important consideration about it, that I want to share with you all:

A relationship is a very good thing, but only with worthy women who really deserve it. Don't award your relationship for free to any unworthy mean slut who doesn't really deserve it, and who doesn't really appreciate you.

The distinction between good women and bad women is absolutely important, and fundamental to the red pill. You just musn't forget this distinction; MANY things just start to make sense in the light of this simple notion.

The red pill is NOT about disregarding ALL women, but about disregarding mean women, namely, women who deserve to be disregarded.

scamper_22 · 2014-04-02T19:52:52+00:00

It depends on what you want and what you can get.

If your goal is pussy, then by all means don't get married or even get into a LTR. There is plenty of that to go around these days without any consequence.

If your goal is to raise a good family, there are girls out there. Not all good girls are bitchy. Not all girls who had a relationship are sluts.

Live you relationship with confidence and direction. This is the absolute key. Set expectations, don't spoil her, treat her like a woman not a girl, handle your shit...

You'll surprise yourself and more than likely be surprised by woman. Many woman are like chameleons more than men. They respond heavily to their environment. You can set that tone of expectations. As long as the girl is not spoiled (either by her parents or by her past), a lot of how she acts depends on the environment you set.

Pay attention to her parents, her family environment, her friends, her past choices...

StoicGentleman · 2014-04-03T00:27:51+00:00

I don't know how you guys in LTR's do it.

Easy. Become her alpha.

TheObelisk · 2014-04-02T13:33:51+00:00

Those two kinds of girls seem to describe the hot ones who are typically troublesome in multiple ways. I have a girlfriend who is nothing like most of the girls described on TRP, most likely because she's more of a 5.5 or 6 than an 8 or 9.

We get along great and agree on a lot of things. I've never met a hot girl I agreed with or could relate to. And in relationships, the hotter the girl, the more damage she has done to my life. So I date average girls, and I dump them if they start to act like the girls typically described here.

As for just trying to bang tons of girls, it just doesn't appeal to me. Personally, it just seems kind of immature; it's what all the guys were obsessed with doing in like, 10th grade. I've already done all my sexual fantasies and had sex with enough girls to where I don't feel like I've missed out of anything.

But I think the description of the two types of hot girl in the Original Post are accurate, and I think it's very understandable to be frustrated and resentful toward them. It's a game to them, a game that sometimes is won by not playing.

Title	After having a little think, I've discovered Relationships to me are pointless Right Now.
Author	musicvita25
Upvotes	32
Comments	47
Date	April 2, 2014 11:37 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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