Well boys if you wondered what creating an alpha widow was like look no further than a little favorite in these parts, im sure those that have been here for a while will remember our adorable little hamster owner u/ into-the-abyss who gave us a little glimpse into what happens to a woman when you accept her break up with no emotion and a little abundance;

The next time I was over at Will's (after he served me potato soup for dinner and was torrenting a documentary for us to watch later) I ended the relationship. I was perfectly honest about everything - he was a great guy, I loved him and his personality, but I felt he lacked career/life ambition and we wanted different things for the future. He sat and listened to everything, seemingly unmoved by it. When I finished talking, he said "fine by me" and asked me to leave. I went to hug him on my way out, instead he just guided me out the door and slammed it shut behind him.*

"fine by me" textbook RP reply, our man must have lurked here a little

now why did she break up with him, dispiste being 'so in love'?

I have Facebook and am on it every day, usually when work is slow. Lately my newsfeed has been filled with my peers getting married, buying houses, having babies, and other various accolades. I can't help but feel jealous by this;

make sure you go and give the post by U/Ramesses_ a read before you carry on: https:// redd. it / 6l6bpm


Now what is she up to today? Its been a Couple of years since Will left her and found a new girl to keep him warm at night and well, lets take a little look at what she posted a couple of months ago:

[Remorse] One night last year I consumed waaay too much alchohol with my crazy friend and we came up with this half baked idea to mess with my ex. We made an account on a dating website using my ex's new girlfriends pictures. We then made a fake guy account and had them message back and forth saying flirty/sexual things. Then we screenshotted the conversation and sent it to my ex, posing as the guy. Essentially saying "sorry bro, didn't know she had a bf".

I still cant get over my EX because I'm moments away from hitting the wall, and he was by far the best I could do tall dark handsome and now rich too, so now i spend my time thinking of him and ways to get back at him for 'lying by omission, for not telling me that he was rich and not spending his money on meeeeeeeee

When I woke up the next morning, I immediately regretted everything. I couldn't believe we'd done all of this crazy nonsense. I deleted all the accounts and hoped my ex hadn't seen the message. I never heard anything back so I assumed everything was fine. I talked to a friend yesterday who knows my ex, and I asked if he was still dating his girlfriend. And the friend goes "no, they broke up in [month] of last year." Which would've been right around the time we sent that message.

I'm not a bad person I promise, it was just a mistake, i really regret it, don't look at me like that, I'm not a bad person, I promise it wont happen again, It was only a one time thing...

I really hope that it's just a coincidence, but I don't think it is -- my ex ended our relationship very abruptly and I could see him doing the same to her if he suspected infidelity. Yep, I feel pretty horrible right now.

It might not be my fault, maybe it was a coincidence, maybe she washed his whites with a red sock and that's why he dumped her, maybe he didn't like her socks that day and couldn't stand her anymore and that why they ended it, pleeeeeeease don't blame me

Fun fact for you boys - the average lifespan of hamster is 2-3 years but hers seem to be going pretty strong

she broke up with him in 2014, and near enough 3 years later she still cant get over him, and shes still reminiscing about what could have been, textbook alpha widow by the ages of her post shes 29ish coming up to 30, she can see the wall and there's nothing she can do to stop her hitting it like a sack of shit and now entering the bitter jaded stage of her little life. Its all over.


Takeaways

Alpha widows are for life, once ruined that's it, she'll compare every guy that comes her way to the man that AW'd her with out acknowledging the fact that her SMV is dropping by the day

Women will never take responsibility for there actions, they don't grow up and they never mature

Once you alpha widow a woman your a part of her life forever, whether you like it or not

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