These are some of my observations that add to the “text-book” RP approach.

  • you don’t have to be the one escalating every time, but you do have to set the setting every time. Yes I have escalated and fucked, escalated and failed as well. But there have been many times where I’ve been seduced, times where SHE has escalated. So read the room, take it like a game and see if you can make her jump you once in a while.

  • I never do fancy dinners, gifts, flowers, chocolates, favours, pick me up, drop me off, none of that shit before her legs open. But after they open, there IS a minimum maintenance you need to keep that plate spinning. Going too macho and too disconnected will satisfy her pussy but eventually will leave her mind unsatisfied. In other words, if they give some pussy, they want some attention. Starting a plate spinning and keeping it spinning are two different things.

  • Slow the fuck down when you talk. Don’t get caught in the moment and blurt shit out. S T F U until you have the answer. This isn’t a first person shooter video game; it’s chess. Consider every move, every word, take your time to react. Internally count to 3 before you reply to anything that seems even close to being a shit test. Not only will it help you think before you speak, but it will make you seem mysterious, and make her eventually fall into a mental place where she will become accustomed to you thinking before you’re speaking (she will be in your frame domain). You will seem smarter/wiser than you are. Remember, women will shit test you till the day you die, and they’re becoming better at it everyday.

  • This one is an FYI. Women talk, a lot, in detail. You scoring and telling your friends “Bro I fucked a 9 last night, I fucked her silly, it was awesome!” Her scoring and telling her friends “ I fucked this guy last night. This is what he looks like. This is where he lives. This is HOW he lives. This is what he wore. This was his underwear color, which made me feel like this. This is how big his dick was. It was shaped like that. There were 2 hairs on his left nut”. You get the point? Details matter. So PAY ATTENTION TO DETAILS.

  • The wetter you make her friends, the wetter you’ll make her. I have had plates FaceTime me with her friends who have told me on the call to my face they’re single, when I know they have LTR’s. If she hears “Fuck, he’s hot!” from her friends, she’ll come and fuck you THAT NIGHT no matter even if she’s in a different city.

  • In the beginning of your journey; don’t always chase the approach numbers, don’t chase the highest numbers on the hot scale (9’s 10’s), don’t chase success, don’t chase pussy…chase rejection. The fear here is rejection. The reason you negotiate with yourself, the reason you can’t walk over to her to try it, the reason you tell yourself over and over that you need to become richer, smarter, more built, taller, better looking, whatever; all comes from a root fear of rejection. Chase rejection, learn to go and get rejected. Eventually you will lose the fear of rejection. Every man, even Alphagod9999 gets rejected sometimes. Sometimes you just don’t do it for her and that’s natural. These days when I get rejected I find it funny, laugh it off and go to the next one.

  • There are positions of power in every aspect of our lives. Try to situate yourself in those positions. Don’t be shy to sit at the head of the table. When I was in university, I would tutor my classmates for free, and so I had a larger group. Tutor in the day time, get calls from girls in the tutor group at night to come over and give them a “private lesson” 😉. Positions of power don’t necessarily have to be CEO of this and Owner of that. You just have to be well situated. This will also teach you how to approach new situation with that lens: “Where can I gain power in this?” Even great leaders make mistakes, 600 year empires fall. Don’t let that hinder you from power.

Enough for now, I may do another.

This post in no way challenges respected core theories; but it’s to encourage newer members - you have to find your own approach and your own mastery of RP. You do have to accept core theories but you must remember that you don’t have to copy word for word from the text book. Add your own twist! Only then will you discover new methods and approaches to further share with this community to build and help future members.

My thanks to any senior members correcting any of my mistakes, or for their inputs on my post.

R