I think for the most part, girls and women in general have an idea if they’re attractive or not, subjectively. For example telling a beautiful girl she’s beautiful just allows her to use her confirmation bias: she heard the compliment, but it doesn’t register past a surface level.

For example, I’m attractive( I model on and off) and when girls hit on me and compliment me, while I appreciate it, I’m not really listening aside from hearing it just to say thank you.

BUT! if a girl came up to me or vice versa, and asked about my backpack or something I’m holding, disregarding my appearance, which is just genetics, I’m more inclined to be involved in the conversation, as it’s more personal.

What I’m getting at is, shouldn’t we just approach women and get to know them as personalities rather than looks? You can approach a 10, but if you don’t tell her that and put her on a pedestal, where does her power lie? Nowhere! Thanks for reading

TLDR: by not complimenting girls/ validating them, you take their power away, and actually get to know them and see if they deserve a 10 rating, and more important, your time.