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Another, "Why I won't date White Men" piece...

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Title Another, "Why I won't date White Men" piece...
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Date November 18, 2013 3:46 PM UTC
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[–]Memento_Mori_Comitis 21 points22 points23 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Shit like this is so blatantly ridiculous. Could you imagine the uproar if a white guy wrote and submitted a "Why I don't sleep with Black Girls" article?

[–]ButterMyBiscuit 22 points23 points24 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"I walk through a club and I see these black women lusting after my exotic, milky-white dong, and they disgust me."

[–]LasherDeviance 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sad part is that its the truth.

[–]LasherDeviance 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She'd cry the same wolf if the situation was reversed and none of the white dudes in whatever town ever hit on her. "These white dudes are racist cause none of them want to fuck me."

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Which may be what is actually going on. Sour grapes.

[–]Senior Contributorwhiskey_bearfist 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

you dont have to imagine it, its happened recently in austin. a guy named romeo rose made a dating profile basically. it listed a bunch of characteristics he liked, among them was no black chicks.

here is jezebel's take on it. http://jezebel.com/romeo-rose-needs-you-to-help-him-pay-his-electric-bill-1450391248

[–]vanzant38 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not even remotely the same.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago* (17 children) | Copy Link

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[–]TheeRyanGrey 12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Do you see? Do you see the narcissism and longing that hides inside the hearts of feminists?

They want to be wanted SO FUCKING BADLY that they rationalize everything into their beauty. They conform to gender roles so harshly that it's almost like their are 2 brains in their heads fighting against each other

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow. People here often exaggerate and say that feminists who write these things are ugly but that really is not a pretty face.

[–]LasherDeviance 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Saw that picture ... Nope.

[–]RedPillScare 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly 0% change in tumescence.

[–]fruitofmyloom 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Ok, that woman is hideous. No one really has great, off-the-cuff closeups like that (otherwise why would incredibly photogenic <X> be a meme) but don't post it on the web holy shit.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]fruitofmyloom 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That picture is hideous!!!

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Makes me glad I severely cut my drinking down.

[–]fruitofmyloom -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't get drunk so nope

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Pic is throwing up an error 403, looks like she's hidden it now. HAHAHA.

[–]9000sins 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

here ya go.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

...

LMFAO. She's not fucking deluded is she?

[–]cwm44 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What are you talking about she's hot. I love her nose. And dat jaw. I came in my britches.

[–]EarnestMalware 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It explains a lot, though. Lookin like that, she really is getting approached by fedora wearing r/cringe type guys. She sees all white guys as that because attractive white guys won't even look at her.

[–]7Vega 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?

[–]CyricYourGod 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She disabled hotlinking. You have to enter it into your address bar.

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Jesus. If you won't fuck black chicks you're a racist, and now if you will fuck black chicks you're a racist too!

I know a white guy who exclusively dates black women. He fucking loves dat ass and so what? I fail to see why anyone would care. This article is just insane.

[–]-Fony- 27 points28 points29 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

black feminists, twice the victim of white feminists.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Black lesbian feminists have victim-gasms daily

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Welcome to political correctness. No matter what you do, honky, you're a racist.

[–]clack-a-lack 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You just can't objectify the women as "exotic." I guess your only option is to fuck black women but don't be exited about it?

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A polite dicking, with no pleasure involved. Perhaps with written consent detailing how the urbane rogering she is about to receive is in no way related to her being a 'womyn of color.'

[–]LasherDeviance 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Why cant you be excited about it? I'm black and every time I smash a cold HB 8+ white girl, I say to myself, "I'm about to fuck the shit out this white bitch!" Granted I live in the US so white chicks aren't what I would consider exotic, as I'm surrounded by them constantly, but still, the excitement of the "other" is still there and it doesn't make it wrong... she's just a turbocunt is all.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The difference is that you're black. Political correctness allows any non-white person to think and say whatever they want about white people, no matter how bigoted it comes off as.

[–]clack-a-lack 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It was more of joke, I wasn't saying you couldn't.

[–]-Fony- 25 points26 points27 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

lmao. well take it from this black man, the sistas who act like this won't be dating ANY man. fuck 'em. oh and the reason they feel so objectified...a good looking black woman looks real fucking good. you often think about her longer than you should, until she opens her fucking mouth and you realize how dumb, racists, narcissistic and bitchy she is.

[–]TheeRyanGrey 13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

all my white friends wanted to bang a black girl growing up because it was new and exotic. then they do and they realize the steaming pile of crazy that comes from modern black women, the most masculine, "independent", yo go girl culture on earth.

there are some great black women out there but it's a rarity, like finding a feminist with a pretty face

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[–]TheeRyanGrey 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Those are Brazilian girls.

When we say Black and White we mean Americans. For instance: I gave up on white girls, but russian girls are the shit.

[–]LasherDeviance 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"Latin girls. All I love is Latin girls."

[–]TheeRyanGrey 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i live my music! haha

[–]EarnestMalware 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"Exotic" beauty is one of those few areas where I buy into evo-psych fully. Gotta mix them genes! I can't believe that women now are at the point where you have to be attracted to them, but only for the right reason. If you want her because she's different, that's not appreciating her as a human being. When she hops on some alpha dick while letting some beta provide, that's just her wanting something different.

[–]-Fony- 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

there's more i want to say about black(and hispanic) women in their dealings with white guys. perhaps when i get back from work. alot of these bitches are scandalous.

[–]LasherDeviance 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A black chick will bungee jump naked for her white daddy any day. While brothers can't even get them to sit down and shut up for five minutes unless we're balls deep.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Incredibly racist

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Only something white person man does can be racist in these liberal times.

[–]mclorie 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

I don't "get sick of black women after I've over-consumed" - I've never been in a relationship with a black woman because, ultimately, I don't want to have children that don't look like me.

I suspect this is the case for a lot of people, unfortunate racist implications aside.

[–]GoryWizard 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Why is it so important they look like you?

[–]GoryWizard 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So, I get down voted for asking a question? I did not criticize his comment/opinion in anyway; I merely asked him why.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]GoryWizard -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I get what you're saying, but I can't help what gets my dick hard, and I adore biracial women.

[–]mclorie 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Probably something to do with the last 200,000 years of evolution.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]GoryWizard 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Ser! I respect your opinion. I'm mainly attracted to biracial women (white&black), so it's hard for me to relate. Aesthetics aside, mixing human genes is a great way to ensure the survival of our species through genetic diversity, but that's not on people's minds when they're thinking of kids.

[–]through_a_ways -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's because Arabs are Caucasian. White people are basically depigmented Arabs, mixed with some other shit.

As for white/Asian mixes, I'd have to disagree. East Asian features are usually more dominant than white ones, from what I've seen.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

a desire to colonize her body

You have got to be fucking shitting me. That's taking the victim card to the next level. Not only are you a pooooooor wittle woman, but now, you're making references to slavery by talking about "colonisation" ... please. Get the fuck out.

[–]rule_of_law 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a simple case of where knowing how to deal with a woman would solve this problem. If there weren't so many blue pill fuckers in that city fawning over a black chick because they think she might be easier than other local women, she might not be so self absorbed up on her fucking pedestal.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

humblebrag. Omg why do all of these white men want to fuck me?!

Lol I'm sure the black guys balling her out have much nobler intentions.

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This woman is obsessing about white penises. It could very well be that she desperately wants the white penis.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can relate as a man. I'm a white American, and being in Europe right now has taken it's toll on me. Every time I talk, women seem so interested in my accent. It's like I'm a foreign object they only want to put their hands on. I can't even begin to explain how degrading and horrible it is. Sexism at it's finest.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A clear case of misogyny. TIL men try to pick women up at bars to fuck. This woman thinks she has found the feminazi red pill or something. She's walking around with a chip on her shoulder, just waiting for someone to knock it off.

[–]vanzant38 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I stopped reading after this line: "everywhere I went, I was white men's object (emphasis on object) of desire.

[–]through_a_ways 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's odd, because most white men aren't particularly attracted to black women.

The narrative reminds me of the whole "yellow fever" thing. "Ugh, these creepy white guys only date Asian girls...can't they see we only want to date the alpha white guys?"

[–]W-Z-R 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

a desire to colonize her body -- 'eat' it up, and use it to come to know himself.

TIL: Racism turns me on

EDIT: I probably should say, the blue pill Betas are probably the ones who objectify her the most for being Black, lots of those morons will have ideas that she is vulnerable and easy and that she just needs some White Knight (if you pardon the pun) to rescue her.

[–]monsieurhire2 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

The woman who wrote this is pissed because she's constantly approached by white men who want to use her to fulfill a fantasy of sleeping with a black woman, and not actually engage her as a person.

It's a legitimate grievance, in my opinion.

Edit: To clarify, you could make an analogy to constantly being moderately wealthy and constantly approached by gold-diggers just so they can live out their TV-fueled high-consumption lifestyle fantasies. They see you wearing half-way decent clothes, driving a half-way decent car, then they try to elicit more information on your ability to spend money on them.

[–]TRP Vanguardnicethingyoucanthave 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The woman who wrote this is pissed because she's constantly approached by white men who want to use her to fulfill a fantasy of sleeping with a black woman

How do you know that? Here's what she says:

"I was getting sick of being approached at bars by white men, changing their pick up line from "Are you an angel? 'Cause it looks like you fell outta heaven." to "I love black people. I have black friends, you know -- now can I take you home?""

That's a lie. She's lying. Nobody in her entire life has ever said anything remotely like that to her. She is a liar.

What actually happens is that she gets normal and socially-acceptable attention from men. Most of it is polite. Some of it is awkward owing to inexperience. What actually happens is that her twisted, hate-filled mind perverts whatever men say into that oppression narrative.

I know we aren't allowed to link within reddit, but there's a great example of this phenomenon on the top of /r/videos right now in a link titled, "Girls are Assholes." Sort is by "controversial" and you'll see all manner of people imagining things that didn't happen in that video.

[–]monsieurhire2 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not saying you're wrong, but I have to take what I read at face value because even if it doesn't happen to her, it happens to someone else. And I have seen plenty a "white" person say many a cringe-worthy thing to "black" folks. There's a youtube video on stuff people say to people of various ethnicities. I've also seen people censor themselves, and act uptight because they're afraid of saying the "wrong" thing. It sounds like from what she wrote, she could be paraphrasing what people have actually said, but like you said, she interpreted to mean.

Given the historical treatment of people of color in Western Civilization, if I were a person of color, I would be extremely cautious and skeptical of intentions directed at me by self-professed white people.

I also know women who have used black men to live out interracial sex fantasies, but they never took them seriously as a romantic partner.

[–]itsmehobnob 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

When did the "real you" become some small sliver of your personality that you get to choose? People cannot choose what others find interesting about them. It is absurd when people get upset because people value characteristics they themselves don't value. Don't get pissy, just be happy you have something of value. Why can't I be attracted to a person solely based on their skin colour? Why is a woman wrong if she's attracted to my ungodly wealth? Having money, decent clothes and cars is as much a part of me as my nose, hair, sense of humour, etc.

[–]monsieurhire2 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The woman appeared to have been looking for a long-term prospect. She was deluged by offers, and couldn't separate the legitimates ones from the shallow ones. Consequently, she got used, and is now irked.

There is nothing wrong with these things as long as they are out in the open. It's when they are cloaked that they are problematic. She's expressing her irritation at constantly being approached for how she looks because she wants someone to like her for her internal essence, as well. Nobody would be deluded to think that there aren't superficial aspects to romance, but at the same time, nobody would want to be desired solely for one attribute, especially a wasting one. She's not even desired for her beauty, she's desired for her ability to fulfill a fantasy, to scratch an itch, which makes her a disposable product, an object to be used a few times, and then discarded. This is not in her long-term interest, especially since many men will lack all scruple and will tell any lie to get what they want.

As for someone liking you for your money . . . .

In short, you can never be sure you aren't their beta bux.

They may decide, that once they get a taste of your wealth, that they want the whole thing, and would rather you not have any. There are all manner of predators who trick men into marrying them, then take their wealth through divorce rape. And if they can't go this route, they try other methods that may involve entire criminal gangs and teams of semi-criminal lawyers acting as accessories to effect a wealth transfer. This is why the wealthy or always super-paranoid about who their children marry.

Also, the person who likes your wealth doesn't really like you, they like what you can do for them, and what you can do for them is mostly not related to your uniqueness as an individual. In fact, you are relatively interchangeable to them, as long as you can provide them with the money and the things that they like. If you don't do this for them, they'll move on to someone else who will. Also, you'll never know to what degree they actually like. They make actually despise you, but like the money you spend on them to the point where the benefits of lucre outweigh the costs of having to maintain an act.

Now granted, you can say this about attribute, but with wealth, it is especially pernicious because of what desperate or amoral people are willing to do to get it.

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[–]trudatness 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe these white dudes in Toronto see a hot black chick and think "Day-um... I want some of that ass"

They score it, but after she starts running her mouth about being oppressed (while attending University and getting many dates with white dudes) they get turned off and dismiss her.

She invents this incredibly contrived mental gymnastics about consuming and colonizing and some other crazy bullshit, but the real reason dudes dump her is because she's an asshole.

[–]7Vega 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Damn that chick sounds full of herself.

And isn't this whole "attraction to the other thing" the same reason why chicks dig dudes with foreign accents?

[–]through_a_ways 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But the initial adoration and my swelled ego soon subsided after I realized that men were not attracted to me for being just a "pretty face" -- I was being objectified, exoticized and sexualized

I think this is code for "I realized that white guys would fuck me, but not much beyond that", which I'd have to say is true for many black girls. She realized there was no payout, so she stopped devaluing herself.

Funny she almost touches upon the issue of the "prettiness of her face":

http://henrymakow.com/upload_images/Eternity%20Martis.JPG

[–]Daddy45 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Through fucking a coloured woman, the white man transcends his 'whiteness' and innocence, moving into more experienced and dangerous territory. Literally through her body, he learns what he is and what he is not. He gains access to cross the border into a dark territory that only he, of all his friends, has yet to venture to. But after 'consuming' her multiple times, he becomes sick and repulsed, as with any overconsumption of food, and spits her out.

Sounds as though she has (on many, many occasions) bestowed her blessed non-white pussy on a white Alpha, and then she has not received a call or second date.

This is also an excellent window into the intellectual vacuity of Marxist-feminism.

So, princess is going to swear off white men, huh? Not giving up the pussy to white guys ever again! Oh, wait..

Until I find that guy and regain my trust in white men, I've saved myself from being checked off someone's "To Do" list again. And although I could be missing out, it's a good feeling to know I'm finally in control. And it feels great.

Yeah. Until the next time she meets an Alpha dude and "one thing led to another" and "it just happened."

I'm sure she thinks a great deal about privilege, racism, colonialism when she's on all fours, begging for more of that white dick, which she obviously cannot say no to.

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