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RedPill Introduction: Hey, I’m Orpheus Vir a man on a mission to understand arousal in a digital world. There is a lot of literature out now that tries to explain the complex dynamics between men and women. Most of that literature fails to show real world value or a solution to problems we face through modern courtship. Online dating has drastically changed the rules to the game of courtship. What was once seen as an exotic method of finding a partner is now become normal. The new rules of the game are fast emerging and a lot of voices are speaking about what methods work best to optimize your chances at scoring a suitable mate. There are many sites that cover these new rules and attempt to show you methods to exploit them. They use nice stories and pretty pictures and get you to buy into false narratives between the sexes that create confusion. The clear distinction between other sites and my blog is that I examines these rules through cognitive/biometric instruments and tries to find observations that can be verified.

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Summary:

Using biometric instruments I've examined a female using Tinder and have made observations about the type of profiles that lead to more attention from a female observers.

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Tinder allows both male and female users to apply their sexual selection criteria, because of this we see the sex with more negotiation power (female) apply more aggressive selection criteria. What this means is that because men are willing to sleep with more women and because their Gender Specifi Sexual Strategy is to impregnate as many females as possible – that they indeed have lower standards for female partners. The reason men will lower their standards is due to a compromise. This compromise states that a man has a different criteria for a women he chooses to commit to and one he uses for sex. Depending on the difficulty level the male perceives from the female in regards to courtship, the male will choose to change his goal from having a relationship to just having sex. Men when attempting to fill the criteria for a female they only want sex from will lower their standards. This compromise is what drives men to increase the number of women they swipe right on. Men are willing to play the numbers game and they just up the frequency of females they’re communicating with to get the desired outcome they want.

Females who become accustomed to the male attention/affection surplus on Tinder develop an artificially inflated sense of self worth. Because females have the more valuable sexual reproduction material (eggs) they negotiate more aggressively to get a mate of higher sexual market value. The mistake here is confusing male attention with male commitment. Males on Tinder are playing the numbers game and are possibly talking to females that they are not interested in for long term relationships. Men have lower standards for women they’ll only sleep with than women they’ll commit to. Also the fact that women only date upward creates an inflated sexual market value for females on Tinder.

Women are trying to get men who will only sleep with them to commit and men are sleeping with women they have no intention of starting a relationship with. This is one of the issues at the heart of extreme application of Gender Specific Sexual Strategies. Women are aggressively negotiating on Tinder by choosing only to communicate with what they perceive as the top percentage of men. What is the criteria for top percentage of men on Tinder?

I'm now going to cover what constitutes a good profile picture on Tinder. By understanding what makes a good profile we will understand the female specific sexual strategy.

Do have other females in your picture:

The number one thing you can do on Tinder to increase your chances of getting right swiped is for your profile picture to have a female and yourself in it. During the experiment a pattern was identified that completely halted our female participant whenever she looked at a profile picture. Whenever there was a profile picture with a man and a women in the frame she spent on average 15 seconds more looking at the profile. In the world of Tinder 15 seconds more is a huge time difference, note that on average 4 seconds is what is expected amount of time spent looking at a profile. When your profile picture includes you and a non-relative female who appears to be happy, smiling and comfortable around you – you are raising the right flags.

To explain why this works lets examine the underlying thought processes at play. When a girl first sees your profile she’s first trying to determine if you’re a serial killer. The number one fear women have when it comes to online dating is meeting a serial killer. Before anything else she is looking for any indication that you are dangerous to her. Women rarely want to meet men that they get uncomfortable feelings from. And women rate the opinion of other women highly. So when a female sees you with another female, she is getting answers to questions. She knows that you’re a good enough guy to make that girl in your picture trust you and that you probably not a serial killer. But there’s a requirement for the amount of women in your profile picture. What we observed was the ideal amount of women to have in a profile picture with you is 1-3, anymore and you’re sending a different message. Also the women have to appear platonic in the picture, they can’t be giving you a cheek kiss. As long as those two criteria are met you’re taking full advantage of this Tinder cheat code.

Examples:

  1. In figure 1 notice that She spends more time looking at the female face than she does looking at the male face. Before she hits the heart icon she looks back at the female face. Notice that she actually reads the profile, before in the profiles she rejected she wouldn’t even bother investing time to read the profile description. Strangely when asked how she felt about this profile she recalls “I feel like he’s really safe to be around – that he’s a good person. ” She was projecting what she perceived from what the female in the picture was experiencing.

  2. In figure 2 She again spends more time looking at the female faces than she does looking at the male face. The profile picture has two females in the picture with the male giving her double affirmation that the guy in the profile picture is rated highly by other females. Towards the end there is a slight swipe to view more pictures but she quickly decides she’s seen enough and gives this profile a like.

  3. In figure 3 we see the same pattern again. Girl in a picture with a guy and she’s smiling. She quickly gives this profile a like, meaning that she got all the information she needed about this guy with just one photo.

Lesson Learned: When using the Tinder app you have very little time to make an impression that will get a women to stop and take some time to look at your profile. There are things you can do now that will increase the chances of a women spending more time looking at your profile. Of the many things you can do leading with a profile picture of yourself and a female will instantly stop a female Tinder user on your profile for about 15 seconds more time than she'd invest otherwise.

To see the other things you can do on your Tinder profile to generate more interest click here to read the full article on ArousalScience.com