At a crossroad

partdopy1 · 2017-02-24T15:00:47+00:00

It is her job to lock you down, stop worrying about it. You are the prize.

Just work on yourself a bit every day and stay busy. Also, don't fuking text/call all the time like a needy bitch.

someonecallamedic · 2017-02-26T16:50:59+00:00

From your account you have 2 options.

Keep spinning her as a plate and not give a fuck when she goes out with other guys, or lock her down if you feel she's worth your future time and effort.

There's nothing wrong with being in a relationship. I think the goal of RP is to always make sure that no matter the relationship you have it's on your terms. You control yourself just as you did when she had a "breakdown" moment and even though the shit tests will continue, I've found they are just for show.

ImamMahdi · 2017-02-24T17:56:44+00:00

She could be just trying to get your attention and trying to get you to react (shit test i think they call it here)

And she might not have done anything with the guy, but tried to make you jealous or get a reaction from you like "Did you do anything with him?" or for you to be shocked, etc.

But like others said, you didn't react and handled it well in your own words.

This all sounds pretty obvious..so probably not the best advice.

I personally think you should just keep being yourself and go along with whatever you were doing before....you can be less available like the top commenter said.

But I also think that if you GHOST her completely for awhile ( a week), that could be a reaction that she wanted....she might think that you were upset or felt wronged or jealous and won't tell her your feelings upfront, so now you are maintaining distance and trying to make her feel bad and trying to get a reaction out of her in return.

I don't know, i'm not an expert and the advice others have given is pretty solid.

throw17453 · 2017-02-24T12:17:38+00:00

and have been texting every day

There's one problem. Be Less Available.

You could try ghosting her for a week, or more, you'd be amazed the effect that can have.

And if she doesn't message you, try to initiate contact, apologise, act confused, upset, conflicted... "I really want to talk to you" "I miss you..." "did I do something wrong?" etc. then next, or drop feelings you have for her and relegate to sex only.

Adam_and_Jay · 2017-02-24T17:07:38+00:00

Sounds like you need to read the sidebar...

Plate this chick, start seeing other women, have an abundance mentality, and you won't care when she inevitably branch swings and lands on top of another dick because you're already fucking two or three other women.

StuttBuffer · 2017-02-25T02:17:23+00:00

Ghost that girl. 1 week absolute minimum.

Mangoinhand · 2017-02-25T09:19:05+00:00

You are the prize motherfucker.

She probably is fucking him. If that bothers you, then she loses the prize.

If it doesn't bother you, then she can have the prize temporarily while you are satisfied in her other "performances".

Lift motherfucker. You wouldn't care if you were so fit that you had a harem where each fucks and sucks you off every week.

Ive got 5 girls... it does hurt a bit when one drops off or I get "micro-oneitis" over a mew potential plate.... for about 5 minutes (trying to get this down to 1 second or nothing)

Lsegundo · 2017-02-24T17:27:37+00:00

you should be dating either 0 or more than 2 women. If you had someone else you wouldn't be sweating her. Then if she wants to get exclusive you are coming from a place of abundance. You can choose to stop seeing other plates or know that she isn't a next level chic for you and move on easily. Its a good sign that she tried to get in touch with you after her date. She still could have fucked him.

Do you all work together? Don't shit where you eat. Dating at work is bad. A love triangle is 100x worse.

Title	At a crossroad
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	38
Date	February 24, 2017 11:58 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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