Build a World.

I'm 23 years old, been a part of the community for 6 months

The high quality content of this Red Pill manosphere, which I have been reading and internalizing via this sub, a few books I've read (here, here, and here), two Youtube channels (here and here), anda podcast (here) has been awesome for me.

I won't bore you with the details, but if I were to summarize it in one phrase, I feel this has helped me get in touch with my masculinity. This, for someone who has a history of low self esteem, pedestalizing women, nice guy syndrome, and volatile emotions, has been a game changer.

However, there is one big point I'm sure has been talked about here before but I would like to say it for myself:

At some point, you have to do less reading of TRP material and do more of implementing TRP material.

You have to build your world.

Red Pill can't be your identity. It can be your guide, it can be your philosophy as to how you live your life and how you conduct yourself, it can be something you turn to when you are in doubt and don't know what decision to take. But it can't be your identity.

When you have dinner with your new and improved friends that your new mindset had created for you, you won't be talking about red pill

When you have a post fuck pillow talk with your plate, you won't be talking about red pill

When your family members comment on how good you look, how confident you are, how mature you have become, you won't be talking about red pill

Your world is SOMETHING THAT YOU DO AND SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN TALK ABOUT

Red Pill just encourages you to get there and build a world, but Red Pill can't be your world.

BUILDING A WORLD BUILDS YOUR IDENTITY, and THOSE are things that make you interesting and likable to fellow males and attractive to women:

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• Your career, job, professional goals, showing you like to WORK
  • Working hard and being ambitious is masculine. Feminine women like masculine males
• Your friend group
• Your 1-2 hobbies that you go deep into and the additional friends that come out of that
  • ideally you should have both physical and non physical activities here (basketball, poker, wine night, hiking, whatever)
• A business or side hustle you are working on getting off the ground
• Books or genres you like (non red pill material)
• Having certain establishments you know, like and are comfortable in
  • If you are dating, you should have restaurants/bars/clubs you have been to so you can take her and lead her into your world
    • Fun activities you can turn into a date/hangout like darts at a bar, bar-cade, sporting event, show, etc
• Family life and connections if applicable

When interacting with men:

• Having a well built world makes you interesting, competent, respect-worthy, and multi dimensional.
• Other men will like you and want to be your friend, might want to see more of your world

When interacting with women and dating:

• Having a well built world makes you interesting, competent, respect-worthy, and multi dimensional, just like above.
• It gives you things to give attention/time/effort towards that are not her
  • this makes her want you more because you aren't always drooling over her.
• It fulfills the human needs you have (respect, validation, feeling needed) without relying on her
  • this also makes her want you more because you aren't always drooling over her
• It showcases that she is #5 or lower on your priority list
  • which is where she secretly wants to be. if you put her top 3, she will not respect you

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Build a world you love living in every day, and you will attract not only high quality women as romantic/sexual interests, but also high quality men as friends. I'd argue the latter is more important, but that's a post for another day.