Called "Peter Pan" on Facebook, and my response.

sj2k · 2017-03-24T16:10:44+00:00

I'm glad this worked out for you but this post is going to encourage others to engage irrational people on facebook. Do not do this.

Barvazon · 2017-03-24T16:28:03+00:00

More important is the question why did you give a fuck about her message in the first place.

disusernameisnttaken · 2017-03-24T16:38:06+00:00

Mate, first of all...

In my discussion with the girl on FB, I calmly presented my argument in ways that she as a liberal would understand.

What's the point in debating with a creature of a solipsistic nature, i.e. mostly incapable of conversing in abstract terms and concepts? Never do that again. Women are emotional creatures, so talk to them with this in mind.

Second, if you had to give in to the urge to respond her, you should have amplified it. But if I were you, I would have just ignored it.

Third, your comparison is off tracks, but I won't go into that, I'll just make a short point as a person who has a parent with 'Peter Pan' characteristics.

It is disgusting, slimy, non-attractive, repulsive and annoying, both from a child-parent perspective, but also from a social gathering perspective. Try to get some counceling if you have this problem, to help you with more adult-communication patterns (talking about EMOTIONAL exchanges here). I'm not saying kill your enthusiasm, I'm just saying learn where's the boundary between "adolescent" and "adult", and stay on the adult side of the border. Otherwise you'll remain an adultescent your whole life, which is a handicap in itself.

Archwinger · 2017-03-24T17:25:22+00:00

So when your real friends joke around with you, do you suck all the fun out of those situations, too? Like by refusing to laugh at yourself, going quiet, getting deathly serious, then lecturing the room on why the remark at your expense was totally inappropriate?

You sound like a real hit at parties.

Mangoinhand · 2017-03-24T18:16:53+00:00

Show off your FB's, girls, etc on Facebook... and then act surprised when people comment on them in a way you did not anticipate.

You're giving yourself drama

Kingern · 2017-03-24T16:09:48+00:00

Fair play mate

I probably would have just called her "Captain Hooker"

SleekLuigi · 2017-03-24T17:40:14+00:00

I'm sorry that someone on the internet, on social media, said something you didn't like too much=\

maitre-pingouin · 2017-03-24T16:41:51+00:00

So basically, you felt butthurt and tried to justify yourself and make her "understand"...

What people write says always more about themselves than about the topic they're writing about. And the minute you try to make a woman understand is the minute you're friendzoned.

deeeeekay · 2017-03-24T17:18:13+00:00

Being a left-leaning TRPer myself, I would highly advise you to avoid getting into arguments with women on social media.

bolt892 · 2017-03-24T17:38:46+00:00

Why did you fucking bother?

tomtompdx · 2017-03-24T17:41:28+00:00

And maybe you are kind of a pussy.

WidmerBeer · 2017-03-24T17:46:19+00:00

Call me Peter Pan and I'll take it as a compliment. Favorite Disney movie as a kid! I'm grown up and think I need to be more like him.

bostonbob1987 · 2017-03-24T18:00:41+00:00

You came off looking like an over-sensitive little bitch to a girl who was teasing you. Congratulations.

derkoff · 2017-03-24T18:08:23+00:00

Jesus fucking christ man. We are above this identity politics bullshit. You cannot try to make "Peter Pan" our "N-----". This is shameful. Why the fuck would you post this here? We aren't feminism for men.

RunawayGrain · 2017-03-24T18:16:16+00:00

"I'd call you Wendy Darling, then. As the only girl on an island full of boys, she couldn't attract any male attention either."

Title	Called "Peter Pan" on Facebook, and my response.
Author	Bankus
Upvotes	0
Comments	55
Date	March 24, 2017 3:57 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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