Correct response?

TheeRyanGrey · 2013-11-17T05:44:51+00:00

Jiveraffe, stick with me for a second because, I think if I draw this out just a tad, the answer will come to you quite easily. You go to a party girl invited you to. Girl makes out with you then makes out with someone else later on without even trying to hide it.

The 2 options you're going with are "Fuck You" or Absolute Silence. Ask yourself: Why would you say fuck you? What would that accomplish? A

Are you trying to let her know how upset she has made you? If this slut has really gotten that many of your emotions from a make out then you're already too far gone.

And why do you care if she knows how upset she's made you? Do you want an apology? Apologies are only good if you plan on seeing a woman again and are trying to correct bad behavior. Who in their right mind would see this woman again?

Are you trying to hurt her feelings? Saying "Fuck You" is giving her emotion, time, drama, and attention, women's 4 favorite things. How is this punishment?

The opposite of love isn't hate, it's apathy. Nothing hurts women more than being completely ignored.

phaseonx11 · 2013-11-17T03:49:46+00:00

Radio silence. You punish behaviors you like, you reward behaviors you don't. Your attention is the reward for good behavior. Correct me if I'm wrong, but did it seem like she did it in a way in which is was inescapable for you to see it? If this is the case. #1 It's probably a shit test #2 Do not play into her game

Edit: Talk to other girls. That is something you should def be doing as well.

PS: This should be in /r/asktrp

beachbum78 · 2013-11-17T04:38:51+00:00

Radio silence. She fucked up. Don't reward her behavior with your time.

seancj133 · 2013-11-17T04:25:56+00:00

Ignore contact, rub one out, and go to bed to fight another day. If you talk to her tonight after what happened then you lose points in her subconscious. Things like this happen in life when you're with girls and it's nothing to be ashamed of. It's important to focus on the war and not all of the battles that you win or lose with women.

kudosxv · 2013-11-17T03:57:47+00:00

"Fuck that bitch". Just say it until you feel it.

frequentlywrong · 2013-11-17T07:13:35+00:00

I don't quite understand. How long were you seeing this girl before going to the party? Why is she inviting you? You are the guy, you need to LEAD. You don't accept dates from women, they accept dates from you. At least until you are in a relationship.

Title	Correct response?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	November 17, 2013 3:48 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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