Dancing

amonde · 2014-07-27T15:13:07+00:00

Just take a dance class.

There is no point in making a huge post to discuss the issue of how to lean to dance. It's not some mysterious or protean skill. You repeat the steps again and again until you can just do it without thinking.

Just take a dance class.

habanegro · 2014-07-27T16:09:22+00:00

Taking a class is a good idea, but dancing is really not that hard. There really isn't a need for a class unless you are VERY remedial.

Do this instead/first:

Learn to clap on beats 2 and 4. (I'm looking at you white people)
Start with bobbing your head to the beat, then moving your feet like in this clip from Hitch. Combine the two and if you can add a snap on the 2 and 4 beats, you're more than half-way there.
Get in front of your biggest mirror, put on the music you are trying to learn to dance to, and watch yourself trying to dance. There are reasons every dance studio has a mirror wall, its because you can see yourself suck and improve. Alternatively, record yourself and watch the atrocity.
Watch youtube videos and practice. 10,000 hours to mastery of any skill and this is no different. It is possible.

As men we barely have to do anything to be considered decent dancers. Most of it is confidence (as with most things) and finding and keeping the beat.

About your side note, If someone is confident enough to proposition your girl while you are right there, then you are probably already done in unless she rebuffs him. Personally, if I even thought she was remotely interested, I'd beat her to it and basically push her out on to the floor to dance with the shit head, then immediately find another girl to talk to while they are gone. It doesn't have to be A1 game, but if you can talk to Alt-Girl for two or three minutes, it will be noticed and effective.

bob_dylans_dream · 2014-07-27T15:43:45+00:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AjPau5QYtYs

You can dance if you want to

beltwaytr · 2014-07-27T18:36:49+00:00

In my experience I hate dancing although I can (not well in my opinion) I prefer not to. I like to watch women dance (if they are good) but that's the extent of it. 9 out of 10 if a woman begs to dance I'll tell her "How about you dance for me." in which I pull her to the side away from the crowd and let her do her thing. This approach works best for me and her as it gives me a nice view of the goods while it gives her that attention she is after.

However I know all too well the energy that comes with Hispanic women. They love to dance, eat, drink, and fuck. If I can recommend anything I'd learn the particularly intimate dances where you will be required to handle her while you dance. The leading and eye contact usually turns them into she-wolves when you take em back to your place.

In regards to your other question I let the chick decide. It gives me some insight on the girl and I can judge where on the totem pole they will be placed. In addition I'm not the "Hey that's my girl." kind of guy. It's unnecessary when you consider the amount of women you can have at any given moment.

Wumpus1 · 2014-07-27T16:33:28+00:00

I think a really great way to help you learn how to dance is to get comfortable relaxing you body and letting it move freely. For me the real ticket was playing sports. It helped me get spatial awareness and learn how to let me body move in fluid, organic ways. I have always found that men who "cant dance" simply cannot relax their body enough. they are robotic with their movements instead of fluid.

also remember that everyone knows, if you can dance you can fuck, and vise versa. Especially girls.

londonmet050 · 2014-07-28T04:09:40+00:00

I did dance some couple dances varying from lindyhop, balboa, shag, blues, salsa and tango. I found tango is not just a dance but it improves your male posture and it is one of the red pill dances you can ever try. If going to gym is for your muscles and testosterone boost. Tango is for your posture, your body language and how to be a man. Just a note that since it is redpill as hell you only see old women and old couples dancing, if you can get over that it does wonders.

RPsixthree · 2014-07-27T15:24:13+00:00

Hmm I wonder how I could learn more about dancing... Maybe there is some sort of class? Maybe there are entire schools around dancing? Maybe I should just take a dancing class? Beats me..

Title	Dancing
Author	Chinny4daWinny
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	July 27, 2014 3:04 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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