Dating

Episcope23 · 2015-03-15T15:03:50+00:00

This. If you want to discuss your plate spinning activities with non TRP folks, just call it dating and not only will you not get any pushback, people will congratulate you for "putting yourself out there."

keepclosed · 2015-03-15T12:33:26+00:00

Do you call it dating to their faces? In my experience most girl's definition of dating is different to how you've re framed it here. Could lead to difficulty down the line?

Archwinger · 2015-03-15T20:02:28+00:00

I thought this was obvious. When a girl is "seeing" a couple of guys, that means fuck-buddies. Times have changed. Dating means hanging out and fucking. It is no longer synonymous with monogamous relationship.

Most chumps think things go: dating, relationship, sex, then marriage. (or marriage first if you're religious or something).

The real way things work is: sex/dating, then relationship, then maybe marriage.

_JustKnight_ · 2015-03-15T17:49:36+00:00

What else WOULD you call it? That is what "plate spinning" is. Dating multiple women.

oldredder · 2015-03-15T20:11:07+00:00

Sure. "dating" for women has been code for "fucking around" for some time so if this stops them getting in your face and encourages them to accept you're fucking around, go for it.

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frankiepwilly416 · 2015-03-16T10:36:03+00:00

It makes me laugh bc women cry and think shows like "The Bachelor" are sooooooo omg romantic. However, when they find out you're "seeing" "dating" etc. 25 girls in real life you are verbally labeled as a man-slut or player. Funny thing is, in my experience, once they find out that they have competition it makes them want you even more.

Whereas, when I find out a girl is dating(banging) a bunch of guys on the side it completely turns me off.

NeoreactionSafe · 2015-03-15T13:56:59+00:00

Dating was practiced during Marriage 1.0 as the process where women were allowed to exercise Hypergamy in order to optimize their mate selection.

In the modern day Dating is obsolete since the Marriage 2.0 contract does not restrict Hypergamy. (in fact it rewards it through Divorce Rape)

I really don't think it's necessary to "keep up appearances" anymore.

If Spinning Plates is your goal there's no shame in doing that and being open about it. And if you wanted to move towards Patriarchy that option can be pursued after a period of Plate Spinning without negative association.

I wouldn't worry about it.

stevredpill · 2015-03-18T18:22:06+00:00

Just say: "I'm seeing someone."

mickeymouseoutfit · 2015-03-28T05:44:15+00:00

This is good practical advice, OP, but why should I have to play this game at all? I'm aloof. I'm my own man. I'm preserving an air of mystery.

More importantly, I am not answerable to anyone regarding whom I choose to ~~plate~~ date, nor for anything else. One can still be honest without divulging what is private. You're neither lying nor deceiving when you simply choose not to volunteer information about yourself that others don't need to know. And should they ask, well it's none of their god damned business!

__ZEAL__ · 2015-03-15T17:09:48+00:00

You're deceiving yourself in order to not deceive others. Interesting.

I think you place too much power in the hands of what other people think of you. You won't reach what you're aiming for with that structure in place.

rpquest · 2015-03-15T13:45:10+00:00

I used to use that term too. Stopped because even that term's not suited to me. Now, I don't even address them as anything, closest might be "this girl", "someone I know", or totally exclude any reference to them at all, as in, "Ah, yeah. Saw that place before, too."

I do this to avoid detail digging questions. Those stuff are uncomfortably cheesy to me. Though sometimes it seems that they get what it means anyway.

Rhunta · 2015-03-15T12:33:33+00:00

This isnt redpill advice. But something I learned from the bible. You should only care about your and God(if you dont believe in God leave it out) opinion. Don't live for other people it is your life.

Title	Dating
Author	makethemwant
Upvotes	63
Comments	47
Date	March 15, 2015 12:19 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2z48c3/dating/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/dating.30237 https://theredarchive.com/post/30237

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