As a red pill man who tries to live an honest life - one in which I don't lie or deceive - I've found the following helpful. I consider my plates girls that I am "dating". This is how I have explained it to my mom, to my female cousins and to female friends, and guess what? I get little-to-no push-back. Women are completely familiar with the idea of "dating" multiple men at the same time. This simple word is a way to re-frame yourself in the eyes of those who would want to condemn you as a player.

It also has been a way for me to feel good about what I'm doing, because it means that I can care for and respect the multiple girls I'm flirting and/or having sex with.