I just bought a house with my girlfriend. She is great, one of the best women I have met and we have been dating for four years. I am about to movie into the house and through a friend of a friend I found out that she cheated on me when we first got together. This was over four years ago now. If she has continued philandering since then she is quite good at hiding it (we lived together for the last almost three years) and she is a truly malevolent creature, do to how loving and caring she is to friends, family and I. the picture perfect girlfriend and least that's the image. Or maybe she feels forever guilty for this and is super nice from then on? (doubt it: an adulteress looks her husband in the eyes and sys I have done no wrong) The good news we put the same amount of money down on a house and even better news she has much more money than I do in savings and through family. I am quite conflicted. I literally just moved in and if we break up we would have to sell the house right away and lose a bit of money. I am debating just playing along like I am a great boyfriend while fucking whomever and doing what I want...or just leaving asap...After alot of what I have learned on here and seen in life it seems a lot of the men and women who "get it" play the game and maintain the facade. I know I can play the game but am I better than that? I think I may be at acceptance. Its a great feeling even if temporary.