Detecting lies and emotions

theredpilluminati · 2015-02-05T03:58:20+00:00

Check out "the definitive book of body language" by Barbara and Allan Pease.

Spanish_Oreo · 2015-02-05T01:33:17+00:00

I suggest checking out "What Everybody is Saying" by Joe Navarro

RPSigmaStigma · 2015-02-05T00:43:00+00:00

I definitely agree that reading facial cues and body language is very important. However, just to be a neckbeard for a second, I have to say that I suspect Lie To Me, like most "sciency" TV shows, is about 50/50 science to "shit everyone thinks is true but is actually just some bullshit" ratio. Just like how every time any show talks about the human brain that old stupid "you only use 10% of your brain" meme rears it's ugly head.

Air4ce1 · 2015-02-05T02:11:46+00:00

There's a lot of science and theory behind this, but it's very contextual(in terms of practical application). "What every BODY is saying" is a nice start. What you are looking for specifically is the study of Kinesics(Non-verbal behavior) and social psychologies. I'm in the process of getting a specialization in both and you start to become more aware of body language and what you doing to affect it and how to react to it. It's sort of like swallowing the pill. You start to see things differently such as: when someone is nervous around you, uncomfortable, or even infatuated.

sir_wankalot_here · 2015-02-05T10:28:21+00:00

Good post, but here is where the wheels fall off the wagon. Lets say you ask a woman "Did you divorce rape your husband ?" it could be a man "Did you steal from the company ?"

They both will say no, and they will think they are telling the truth. In the woman's case she thinks she is entitled to what she got, she might even think she did not get enough.

The man with the company. Maybe his boss screwed him over, he didn't get paid overtime. So he took that new printer home, he doesn't think he was stealing, he is just taking what is rightfully his.

RedHeimdall · 2015-02-05T15:29:00+00:00

I would look to professional interrogators as they have the practical experience. It would be hard to get a lie past them. But if you pay attention in your own life and amass experience you will naturally develop your own bullshit detector, some better than others. I'm quite confident in mine.

raob11 · 2015-02-05T16:45:04+00:00

One of my best buddies is a police detective in a major US city. We talk shop a bit and he's given me a few tips that he's learned and uses every day.

To me, probably the most useful tip for TRP is that you expect her to be lying about something... this is where this sub and the related manosphere are so useful - with a bit of reading and field experience, we KNOW that AWALT... we KNOW she's looking for a big strong dominant man to pound her... regardless of what she says.

Another handy tip is, let her know, subtly, that you know she's lying or bs'ing, but don't make a big deal about it. Agree and amplify, ignore the shit tests, smirk when she says she has a BF... all the standard PUA strategies.

Because when you get to the bottom of things, it doesn't matter if she's lying. If she's DTF then her actions will speak louder than her words.

If you are getting serious enough that you truly want the whole truth and nothing but the truth... well you need to go read the sidebar again. And maybe get a keylogger.

Title	Detecting lies and emotions
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Date	February 5, 2015 12:35 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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