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[–]crimsonpowder18 points19 points20 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I bought a Blendtec blender after watching those YouTube videos where they blend iPhones and concrete with it. I keep putting crazy shit in there to see where the breaking point is.
The more I shit test my blender, the more impressed I become with it. And the harder I shit test it. Someday I'll break it, get another one, and stop caring about it.
It's hard to not break. But if you manage it, she'll be in awe of you.
[–]Mecha7516 points17 points18 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope. After over 16 years of marriage i still get shit tested.
[–]NihilistMonkey8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
It never goes away. Are you sure you're actually passing them though? From my experience they tend to happen less often as time goes on, as it becomes more solidified in her mind that she hasn't made a mistake in her choice. They never fully go away though, she will always need the occasional reminder that you haven't gone soft. If you started your relationship before TRP the shit tests may by increasing because you're changing and it's not the "real" you and she's trying to beat you back into submission. Look into dread game, it's a game changer for LTR's.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
From what I read, the more the better. When they stop is when you should worry.
But fuck what I know. I just shitpost and use this page to kill time at work.
[–]NihilistMonkey0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It depends. If you're getting shit tested often it's because she is unsure about your frame and is testing it for weakness. If you used to get tested often and all of a sudden it stops, then yes you should worry. She's done testing you because you've failed too any of them and she's ready to check out or branch swing.
A lot of guys don't see that for what it is and are just happy things are less stressful. It's usually accompanied by her starting to go to the gym more or dressing nicer etc and guys are happy with the changes, and are then blindsided by a divorce or cheating. It's only after the fact that they realize she stopped shit testing because she's given up on you, and she started looking better so she can upgrade.
[–]wc12770 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thanks man, I'll look into that
[–]wataDs2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Perhaps you have some incongruencies in other interactions you have with her that trigger her to give you more tests?
[–]wc12771 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I'm sure you're right. I'm working on it. Getting better everyday but wore the fuck out as well with the intensity of it lately
[–]Chemlab1876 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes they do go away but it requires that you CAPTAIN YOUR SHIP. The CAPTAIN never gets shit tested because the crew is too busy following the captain's leadership and meeting the captain's expectations. Now I'm not saying that at some point the sociopath won't just snap and set fire to the whole damn boat, but that is the gamble you take with LTRs.
[–]Random-Reddit-Lurker5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In a word? No.
In two words? Fuck no.
[–]Grimsterr5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
22 years married.
Nope.
Or is it 23 years? Shit I just failed another one.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some bad advice here. Shit testing should never stop. It will happen less frequentlt, but if it stops that's a red flag. You just have to be strong enough to deal with it forever.
[–]stemgang4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If it's testing for occasional reassurance, that's expected.
But if it's not lessening, it sounds like she's doing it just out of habit, or for entertainment.
As always, simply ask yourself if it's worth it, and keep your options open.
And I agree with the other comments about dread game: make sure SHE knows you have other options.
[–]Redsnow32 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol what is the sidebar and how does one read it?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No. People don't read it. if they did, we wouldn't have the many repeat posts here in this sub.
But I am not even shit talking. I haven't even read that shit yet. I need to, but I also rarely post actual threads.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No apparently. So deal with it, or do without women.
I guess this is what people really mean when they say "can't live with them" The constant testing. "Can't live without them" We like pussy.
[–]BobbyPeru2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If it does stop, that means she's become indifferent to you and is starting to not care. You need to get a different perspective on shit tests - I prefer the term "fitness test." They are constantly testing your fitness to make sure you are a suitable or "right" choice.
Learn how to have fun with shit tests through AA, AM, fogging, STFU... Etc
[–]TheRedStoic1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No though it will eventually be passed without needing any thought, in which case it's little more than amusement if you notice it at all.
So in a way, the annoyance disappears, so it kinda stops.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
There is no sunrise- there are no happy endings for us individually on this godforsaken rock. I'll get downvoted because feewings- but what I say is true. And such is the price of being born. We all die in the last chapter of our story and our friends attend the funeral for a chance to fuck our wives. And the shit testing from your old lady will either become a type of amusement that tickles your ego and reaffirms your masculinity or it will destroy you. It all depends on you- and what is within you. See it as your chance to chuckle and reassure yourself that you are successful in TRP's doctrine- the laws of human biology- and let her insecurity feed your assurance of security...like a transfer or conversion of energy. Kill the Beta- and watch out for zombie Beta.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dsxAiOE-X4
[–]NovicePilgrim0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You talk about passing shit tests as if you where depleting/losing/wasting some resource.
You are not.
[–]brinkleybuzz0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, when you become a monk or die.
[–]NeoreactionSafe0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Punish every Shit Test and reward with Comfort her best most soft and feminine behaviors.
Over time she will fall in line.
You must train her... but if she has bad habits already it might not work.
Low quality women are common these days.
Some are not LTR material.
Recognize which girls are cum buckets and which are LTR potential by their ability to become well trained.
The well trained LTR smiles a lot, has a kind of glow, and Shit Tests rarely, but you will never completely remove the Shit Test because it's part of life.
If a girl is always bitchy, wears a bitch face, insults you with brutal Shit Tests, then you demote her to the level of a Plate and remove her from your living space. Only fuck her, no commitment, no love.
Only reward the well behaved woman with LTR status.
[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are weak. Go lift iron.
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