Dread gets a lot of hate from the SJW-sphere and for obvious reasons. Dread game has historically been proven time and time again to be an effective method a man can use to maintain relational stability.

Put simply, dread is the process of applying various tactics in the relational engagement to instil a feeling of fear of loss in the girl. Loss of you. This is not as devious as one may initially think. You see, because girls primarily work off emotion, they get bored easily as drama usually follows a “peaks and valleys” pattern. Boredom generally leads to drama-seeking. With Dread, we can artificially create drama to keep the girl hooked, as well as maintain a position of a higher worth which the girl would subconsciously recognise.

Dread Game aims to achieve two objectives:

  • A display of higher value.
  • Fear of loss.

Achieving the above can be done simultaneously in most scenario’s where Dread game is engaged. I would also suggest the use of caution when using this method via recognition of human limits, in that each opportunity to use this method needs to be calibrated to the situation. You don’t want to look like an asshole, but you also want to confidently let everyone in the area know what’s up.

Objectives

Display of Higher Value:

DHV is any situation or occurrence that is perceived by onlookers as making you seem valuable, where your status is perceived to be high. Opportunities can present themselves instantaneously such as a shit-test (“Where are we going to eat?”) or be more of a long-drawn case, such as being jacked and being dressed well.

A girls Hypergamy aims to find the highest quality male she can attract; this translates to finding highest value male she can attract. DHV therefore can be used strategically to reaffirm the girls hypergamous enquiries. From here, it’s only a matter of how much value you’re able to display.

Displaying value can be achieved via 2 means:

  • Behaviour
  • Perception

Behavioural methods include displaying confident, cool behaviour. Verbally, behaviour is a reinforcer of Perception, in that the way you speak to a girl. The tone of your voice, the content of your words and most importantly, your posture should all be used to display high value behaviour. You’re laid back, you’re in control, you listen to what the girl says and can keep the conversation going. If you can learn how to control the direction of the conversation, you gain the ability to create emotional spikes, as well as move the conversation at the speed and the direction you want.

Perception plays a big part in the art of DHV. Perception can play an impact on whether you get the job or not, whether you get into a new social circle or not and in a more extreme instance, getting out of a speeding ticket.

Some common patterns used to instil the perception of value are pretty simple yet effective. By natural design you are wired to approach as many women as you can. With this in mind, make it a habit to lightly flirt with every female you come into contact with on a day-to-day basis. Cashiers, sales assistants, etc. Your girl needs to know you as someone that has friendly chats with many people as you move through your day. Do this especially with your girl nearby. She needs to see first-hand that in your life, in general, girls have fun when you are around. The perceived result is that you are someone that gives value to those around him. Simple.

Fear of Loss:

Fear of Loss can be used both overtly and covertly, with the former proving to be best used only as a last resort. Due to this, I’ll only cover the covert method of instilling Fear of Loss. One of the greatest tools a man has in his arsenal is the female’s imagination. Fuel it the fuel you want, to get the result you want. This is not to say that this is used in a sinister fashion to manipulate the girl, this is simply seizing the opportunity to reaffirm the girls imagined perception of potential relational catastrophe in the future. Put simply, you’re not verbally telling her that you will leave her if she fucks up, but you’re allowing her imagination to create this cause and effect scenario in her head, and passively reaffirm it.

Some common examples of this would be to constantly text multiple girls simultaneously. She needs to see that other girls are texting you. If probed, plead “co-workers” or some other bullshit excuse, but really, she shouldn’t even be questioning it. As already mentioned, lightly flirting with other girls in front of your girl is also recommended. On the surface it seems that you’re just a friendly guy, but her imagination definitely would consider the attractiveness of the girl and the probability of you cheating. A final good example is going cold on the girl for a period of time. A lack of demand with too much supply causes the price to be lowered. Remember this and occasionally create scarcity.

One of the most common instances of Dread Game at work is the classic example of the guy suddenly deciding to hit the gym to lose that overshadowing 40lbs. Many men report a noticeable improvement in their sex life, as well as, usually, an improvement in the girls behaviour.

This Red Pill theory unjustly gets a lot of flak from beta males and feminists. They fail to recognise or worse, deliberately cover up the fact that by nature, women love to be with a male higher value than them.

Use Dread Game as a tool to improve your roster/relationship/marriage. No guy likes a bitch but every guy likes a girl that keeps them at the centre of her attention, Dread Game is a harmless method that can improve the satisfaction of both people.

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