Feminine Gays - Explained

down_with_whomever · 2014-04-13T06:34:17+00:00

Except gays aren't feminine, they're infantile. Their misunderstanding of social norms and cues seems strikingly similar to a young child before they grapple with the gradual realisation of social expectations that most children experience during puberty - particularly concepts such as handling social rejection without narcissistic fury; adaptation of peer group norms; and that people have no time or concern to give them special treatment or allowances because they have their own problems and concerns.

This misunderstanding leads to Exaggerated Performance as a way to gain attention - what you're misreading as 'femininity'. Gay guys aren't feminine. They're performing a grotesque exaggeration of femininity to gain acceptance with the female caregivers who reward their sissy mannerisms during childhood, as straight men and father figures have no time for children who will avoid hard work and the possibility of failure. Gays prefer the comfort of what is easy: dad will expect you to do hard, physical things that run the risk of hurting yourself, and, as such, never challenge themselves and develop emotional resilience. Easier to run to a female audience who will celebrate them for simply existing. You have to earn respect from male peers and you don't gain it by demanding special treatment and saying that everyone has to like you.

Gays are also heterophobic and misogynistic. Their reaction to female sex organs is exaggerated and, once again, purely infantile. "OMG, pussy, ewwww fish...." blah blah. It's the response of a child in the playground thinking girls have 'germs'. Fuck knows why women think such savage misogynists are their friends, but I expect two narcissists using each other of an audience largely engage in parallel conversations, never truly interacting with each other. Think about drag sometime: what else is that but a monsterous parody of what gays think women are?

Note classic 'gay face': exaggerated eyebrows, wide eyes, open mouth. Toddler performance. If it's not that, it's the disingenuous smile: straight line, both teeth showing, no corners turned up, unraised cheekbones, non-crinkled eyes. Social misreading of how adults smile due to a lack of empathy for others, and strikingly-similar to babies.

http://photos.posh24.com/p/1178782/z/megan_fox/perez_hilton_vit_och_rosa_onep.jpg

You'd be surprised how common that one is amongst gay guys. I've noticed as Millenial Girls have become so socially-awkward, they're not quite sure how to smile normally either, so you're getting duckface or miley cyrus tongue in every profile shot.

This basic difference, adult vs child, is why gay and straight men will never truly get along - men mature later than women, but to far greater depths, and the alpha ones are simply too far from childlike thinking to be able to relate in any way to a gay guy. Women simply have more in common with them, because their higher levels of oxytocin means they're more nurturing of children.

From my experience, no matter the claim of being her 'bestie', you always have to deflect the inevitable "You know if you just shut your eyes it feels like a girl doing it. Have you ever tried it?" conversation from your girl's Pet Gay. My response is simply: "If you think it's that easy, why don't you shut your eyes and fuck a girl." Cue standard hysterical "OMG VAGINA EWWW!" response.

Childlike misunderstanding social cues. That's all it is. It's why they read everything as homoerotic. A bunch of guys with their shirts off is erotic to them, so it must be to the guys with their shirts off too.

"You don't like me? What! You have to like me! I'll MAKE you like me!" < runs off to the teacher

Think about how a gay pride parade resembles a middle school pageant: untalented people performing for a largely bored audience, and expecting applause for doing so.

Adult men thinking taking drugs and dancing all night isn't an embarrassing and immature lifestyle when still in their fifties, when they should have developed healthy adult relationships and nested and outgrown the need for it.

Children, not women.

If you can't relate to your 'own people', you're kind of stuck. You're not going to be able to toughen them up, because most people are lazy, and are going to regress to whatever takes the least effort to achieve affirmation. Why are they going to work to strengthen themselves, when there's a whole industry that will tell them they're strong and brave for simply existing.

Also, stop to think that gays have a prescribed role in society for a reason: men who banded together could be very powerful, particularly if they have no interest in the concerns of women. As such, masculinised homosexual men would be a very real threat to those in power, which is why the gay cliché exists: marginalised, subcultured, effeminate, weak, superficial, self-obsessed. That's exactly how they want you to be.

icanteventhecat · 2014-04-13T05:06:01+00:00

Interesting theory. However, I speculate the vast majority of gay/bi men are still in the closet and blend in seamlessly. Many specifically do not want to be associated with the "flamboyant queen" stereotype. In fact, the more masculine they are, the less likely they are to come out.

[deleted] · 2014-04-13T06:48:50+00:00

Gay men are attracted to masculine men? I am thin, 5'5 and have a baby face... I wish i got hit on by women as much as I do from gay men.

Ausfall · 2014-04-13T05:37:33+00:00

So what you're saying is that gay men befriend women easily, spend more time with them socially and through that are infected by their "girly-ness" by osmosis or something?

WhyNotThough · 2014-04-13T06:57:46+00:00

interesting, I have read an article regarding the homosexual male to lack a masculine figure during mental development (masculine father figure). Resulting in a chase and attraction toward masculine men.

There was much more to this, this is just extremely simplified

mccdizzie · 2014-04-13T08:16:06+00:00

Jack Donovan writes very interestingly on charicature-feminine gay culture. He's a spill blood kind of guy so I usually like his work, and he is himself gay.

Title	Feminine Gays - Explained
Author	CosmicSignificance
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Date	April 13, 2014 4:49 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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