I don't post here often. This community peaked my interest a while ago and did help me find in myself the motivation to work harder, improve my habits and my physique, and take more control of my life in many ways (hey, thanks)

Every now and then, though, I'll come across something that is gobsmackingly red pill from people who profess to hate everything about it.

Here's one of those!

https://www.producthunt.com/podcasts/dirty-sexy-monogamy-why-you-keep-dating-a-holes

A boyfriend and girlfriend podcasting. The girl, Gigi, is a self-proclaimed feminist. They're talking about girls dating assholes. Gigi says:

"I didn't date assholes. I dated doormats... They did whatever I wanted, treated me like a queen... It wasn't attractive. They would be terrified to stand up to me. I had two boyfriends like this. I basically just cheated on them, did whatever, only called them when I felt like it, never introduced them to my friends or family... And they just would never fight with me... I have a strong personality. I'm like a huge cunt. I say mean shit a lot just to get a rise out of people, sometimes--"

(shit testing)

"--I know that's a character flaw."

(kinda, yeah)

"Then there's the other guys... The guys that most girls are into. Which are just like these fuckboy assholes who like treat them like shit, and they love that. And it's so weird to me."

This is 20 seconds after talking--coldly and remorselessly, I might add--about how she cheated on guys that were really kind to her, and how she used them for free things.

She kind of acknowledges later that this is a sign of immaturity and 'kind of fucked up' (though she's quick to point out that it wasn't misandric behavior, and she also calls guys who are assholes immature as well. Which means... I think... Nice guys don't get to have sex until girls grow up enough to deem them worthy to have sex...? Or something? I don't fucking know).

She goes back and forth on disparaging these 'asshole' guys, but later says:

"This is the thing about being an asshole. This culture and what 'society' has taught women to be attracted to turns perfectly nice guys into pieces of shit! Like why would a guy not be a dick if it works? If being nice is not gonna get you pussy and being an asshole is gonna get you pussy...Under what circumstances would you be like 'I'll be nice anyway! Haha, that's fine, I don't care if I don't get laid and... everyone thinks I'm a little bitch while my friend is this jock... and the girl I want to hook up with is going home with him cause he's mean.' Under what circumstance would you continue with this nice behavior?"

Notice: she blames society! She cheated on two, TWO nice guys! But no no it's society's fault... I just... I don't get enraged often or easily... but this bitch.

"You don't have to date people that treat you like shit." She says, meaning her girlfriends and the assholes they're dating, but I'd want to say it to the guys she fucked over...

The cognitive dissonance... It physically hurts.

Later she says to her boyfriend, "You're so nice to me." She likes that he stands up to her, unlike her old 'doormat' boyfriends, but still...

...this would scare the fuck out of me if I was her boyfriend.