Finding Underlying Motives

MOCKxTHExCROSS · 2016-07-11T20:57:05+00:00

Stop being "nice" and doing stuff for free.
She's obviously not committed to you. Your commitment is your most valuable asset as a man. Never give it away for free.
If you're not hitting it someone else is. Even if you are, someone else is.

TheEagleAndTheSnake · 2016-07-11T20:58:47+00:00

There are more red flags in your story than there are at a communist rally. Don't move in with her, continue to fuck her until impossible and find yourself some plates so you gain momentum in abundance.

SenorLopez · 2016-07-11T20:19:33+00:00

Alright, so let me get this straight... You guys talked. Talked. Decided to move in together, and then started "dating" after the fact?

I only see this as being a placeholder or being used so she can continue to live in the city. She should not be dominating over you/the relationship.

I don't see how you are benefiting in this besides being with your "ideal girl." Not worth it imo.

You're the prize, don't give her a place to stay to just have a chance at a relationship with a girl. Should've been happening before if it were meant to be something more.

flavornuts · 2016-07-11T21:40:34+00:00

She's playing games and disrespecting you. If a girl I was seeing wanted to keep me secret or got annoyed at me for joining her social events, I would drop her in a fucking second.

Find a new girl, and this time cultivate respect from her by holding your ground. Don't give her free shit, don't promise her your commitment.

SpicyTaco_ · 2016-07-11T20:40:38+00:00

Well she already said that she doesnt feel that way about you. You want something that she doesnt, so she probably just wants to have like a roommate and be fuck buddies like you said instead.

ace_valentine · 2016-07-11T21:42:37+00:00

Dude, hard next. Red flags are everywhere. Tip for the future: don't move in with girls unless you've been in a relationship for a long time and even then you should be careful.

Glynnyg · 2016-07-13T12:03:55+00:00

Dude next this girl , alarm bells should be ringing! Do not give her the benefit of the doubt , do not give her the opportunity to change your mind. She will start crying, say she is sorry, lie and say she loves you. No offence but you may think she's not that kind of girl but she is

theoctopuss · 2016-07-11T21:25:37+00:00

Don't do it. You'll regret it.

Forcetobereckonedwit · 2016-07-12T00:06:46+00:00

Read your post again...closely. You have answered yourself very well.

Next immediately.

2Bait4Me · 2016-07-12T10:14:23+00:00

You know from what you have typed what is going on Subconsciously, but your conscious is trying to fight against for what ever reason (oneitis, saricity mindset )

chahmana · 2016-07-12T13:35:56+00:00

Jesus christ man! Did you consider reading the other articles?

tekn0_ · 2016-07-12T14:26:03+00:00

Your life. Your decisions. You face consequences of your decisions.

Having said that, you seem to be trusting too much of a woman, who isn't displaying the same level of trust in you. So the solution is literally staring at you in the face, and you are just afraid to say it out loud. This is the beginning of the end of the illusion you had about her in your head.

And please, don't let a woman dictate the terms of your relationship. You should be the one determining the terms of YOUR commitment. Not her.

PM-ME-YOUR-SEXTAPE · 2016-07-12T14:35:15+00:00

Hard next her ass. Most likely she is still fucking her ex and you're the emotional tampon and rent paying sucker. Sidebar and lift

Title	Finding Underlying Motives
Author	Punker_Marth
Upvotes	0
Comments	28
Date	July 11, 2016 8:03 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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