First Post - woke up in anger phase x2

JP_Whoregan · 2014-09-05T14:17:07+00:00

You young guys who have found this have no idea how lucky you are.

Looking back at my blue pill days, I find it nothing short of a fucking miracle that I made it to age 33, never married, and never divorce raped. I've had plenty of LTR's over those years, ranging from 6 months to 4 years, all with definitely attractive women.

But the idea of "marrying" them always set off some twitch in my hind-brain, even as beta as I was; like some dagger of logic trying to poke it's way to my conscience; almost like Neo in the beginning of the Matrix, where Morpheus says "you sense something is wrong, but you just can't put your finger on it."

I'd always had some level of trepidation about marriage, and everybody (including my parents) told me that my fears were irrational and/or illogical. Now I know better. TRP has validated my intention to never, ever marry in western culture, and story after story, blogpost after blogpost, has confirmed that decision.

neveragoodtime · 2014-09-05T17:47:00+00:00

Another way to think about it, for every year you wasted the girl wasted 3. You can go from 40-50 without skipping a beat. A girl goes from 30-40 and her game is over. Guys should feel no remorse about moving on from a dead relationship, and if she wants to throw it away, let her. Girls get comfortable in a relationship because they think a year to you means the same as a year to them. They don't realize their own investment in the relationship is always more than the man's, because time is on our side. Yes it is.

slappywhyte · 2014-09-05T15:31:46+00:00

Any age is a good age to learn this type of stuff

phishyfingers · 2014-09-05T18:00:41+00:00

As a young man I used to think women were only good for one thing...

Now that I'm older and wiser, I realise they're not even good for that.

DoxasticPoo · 2014-09-05T18:02:23+00:00

"A piece of me dies."

Let it die. That's what TRP does, it helps kill the virus inside.

Agent1407 · 2014-09-05T17:57:57+00:00

But when the inevitable (beta behavior induced) breakup happens, it hits me very hard. A piece of me dies.

I used to feel the same.

Then I discovered that everything in this fucked-up world is impermanent, and when something leaves you, what dies is a part of you that is not you, is your ego. Is your clinginess, your sense of lack, your beta-self.

Use the feeling of emptiness that you are feeling right now to burn everything that is not you. Use it as the fuel to burn your ego.

[deleted] · 2014-09-05T16:18:51+00:00

I didn't start getting it until a couple years ago at 34 and I'm still impressed there are guys waking up to the reality of things at 20. But who knows, maybe I needed to end up where I was at first. I know of another guy in his 50's who took the red pill, started spinning plates and loving life after a troubled marriage so the world is still your oyster. It's probably bittersweet, but you get to start completely fresh at least. The anger is natural, just don't stay mired in it longer than you need to.

sheds82 · 2014-09-05T17:03:06+00:00

Don't dwell in hate too long, and don't focus your life on a woman. Focus on getting yourself in shape and having a great life. Women should not be your goal. You should be the goal.

Also, you may rant out initially, but remaining there for many months is not good. It would be just like those other BP punks complaining that women are to blame for not giving them anything.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-09-06T02:53:04+00:00

I hear you brother. I was so pissed when I discovered The Red Pill I almost had a breakdown. It started with a multi-day manic attack where I literally read several books and a huge amount of blog without sleeping. It took huge amounts of valium and ambien to even get to sleep for months. I was pissed for the same reason as you- ALL THOSE WASTED YEARS. Now I am nearing 50. Why didn't I find this earlier- fucking PhD in human behavior and NONE of this was taught. it was avoided and hidden.

One thing that calmed my anger was realizing that, literally, this information was not available to anybody. The feminists hid it and it was not until the manosphere in the 2000's that the true nature of women was 'rediscovered.'

[deleted] · 2014-09-05T19:11:18+00:00

The dangerous part of TRP is that it induces your anger. Most people need to experience some success with TRP before they start getting over their anger. Some people are in such a hole, that it means they have to put forth a whole bunch of effort and some of us simply won't make it.

Anger will repel women faster than anything. You have to learn to accept women for what they are and not place undue expectations on them. Otherwise, you'd probably be better off BP.

JovianTrainWreck · 2014-09-05T21:54:13+00:00

From what you stated, you're further along than most young guys here, especially since men's SMV increases with age, unlike women. Badass job? Still have good looks at your age? Shit, the only thing on your shoulders now is the grief stages. From there it's just applying the RP stuff you probably already know, and slaying the college pussy. I believe it when the veterans here say you can smash 20yo pussy at your age.

I'll be 29 VERY soon, and I still have a ton of catching up to do. Looks and lifting are literally all I have going for me at the moment. I still fight Social/Approach anxiety tooth and nail, and there are days where I wonder if I'm truly past the anger phase myself...

egoisenemy · 2014-09-05T23:09:49+00:00

If you got money, I'd suggesting banging some escorts to understand that women really are for sex and to help cleanse yourself a bit.

brother_red · 2014-09-05T17:50:49+00:00

Starting with my branch swinging mother, and on to my three failed LTR/marriages.

ouch, that hurt

I'm north of 50 now. ....Fortunately, I have decent genes and a killer job, so I'll be spinning plates soon enough

Make a killing, not remorse, you can still make your life better than the average blue piller.

so I'll be spinning plates soon enough - but the best part is that I get to do what the fuck I want to do, whenever the fuck I want to do it, from now on.

no offence...you may still loose frame, you will feel the need to slip into provider mode...catch yourself before that happens, the prospect of being alone as you get old makes you do stupid shit and you know that, because you done stupid shit at least 3 times before.

brother_red · 2014-09-05T18:42:26+00:00

I agree with you 100%, the internet has made life a lot easier for those of us who are smart enough to utilize it properly.

Sorry you sort of missed out man.

You can always still get a mail order bride and have like ten kids though.

Locastor · 2014-09-06T00:41:15+00:00

OP, this is about making scientific inventions, but it applies to you as well:

https://medium.com/message/you-are-not-late-b3d76f963142

You are not late.

Buy a new wardrobe, go lift some iron, start flirting with girls whenever you can, and make sure they are the hottest ones.

Also, fresh young sluts are quite happy to bang fine distinguished men of your age. Get bonus points by parading them in front of women your age

[deleted] · 2014-09-06T03:58:59+00:00

There now, I feel better!

Now you can look back and laugh at what a silly blue pill idiot you were. Amused mastery for the win.

TheReason13 · 2014-09-05T16:53:32+00:00

I think that younger guys don't have the experience or mental and intellectual acumen to appreciate TRP philosophies. I'm turning 29 this month and I have no idea how I've made it this far. Now that I think back I realize I've somehow weaseled my way out of situations with woman that should have destroyed me. Perhaps it was blind luck, but realizing now in what danger I was it amazes me that I came out smelling like roses. It doesn't make any damn sense at all.

vengefully_yours · 2014-09-05T19:01:14+00:00

I'm 45 and I believed the bullshit about being nicer, respecting her, and giving her freedom... All bullshit. Set boundaries and do what the fuck you want. I want to do this chick who came over last night, she's married to a mommas boy beta, if she comes by today she's getting hate fucked. AWALT.

[deleted] · 2014-09-05T22:42:32+00:00

I've googled it, but cannot find the meaning of AWALT. Whats that?

RedPillExclusive · 2014-09-05T20:53:07+00:00

I'd wish all those other subreddits would've never of advertised theredpill

80% of the post now are a bunch of whiny ass betas who migrated from all those redpill hate threads.

Title	First Post - woke up in anger phase x2
Author	brother_red
Upvotes	163
Comments	55
Date	September 5, 2014 2:01 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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