I've always looked at my development as a man, in terms of levels. Every-time I "Level Up", I see substantial increase in the type and volume of girls life rewards me with.

In the last <2 years, I've stalled. To avoid TL;DR story, here's the before and after.

Before: 210 lbs, 30+% bf, couldn't look people in the eye, 2 friends, no lays, no style, AWFUL acne, no cool hobbies/skills, lived at home. Unemployed.

Current: 175 lbs, 12% bf, eye contact fixed, body language fixed, skin fixed, 30+ lays, style modeled after MFA (male fashion advice reddit), Play guitar very well, moved out with 2 roomies 2000 km from home, do MMA, bodybuilding. Worked at Google, now with a small software company making $55K out of school.

Now: I've recently been GOT as beige Phillip puts it. I got back with an "ex" and moved to be with her. Y'all know how it ends.

Because I've already got most of the external factors handled (skin, physique, style etc), I'm wondering what the next step is.

I will be starting to do Muay Thai again when I find a school I like in this new city. I'm signing up for Salsa classes. I'm mulling over buying a car at the moment, since I don't know if I'm staying here. My social circle is TINY. Maybe 2-4 people.

Is there anything else you guys can recommend for me at this point to try out?

I would REALLY like to do a beginner steroid cycle to take me into that elite fitness level, anyone with experience chiming in would be great.

I'd like to advance my career as fast as possible. A friend suggested therapy to deal with a few things as well.

I'm calling upon the collective intelligence of TRP, selfishly to help a recovering former-player back on his feet after being humbled.