Introduction

Met a girl off tinder and had same-night lay. She was a 24 year old HB7, HB8 with make-up and in person. Definitely better than photos for once. I'm writing the post to give some important lessons that I learned.

Body

Matched her over break and the conversation was sarcastic. It died down after a few hours until she became unresponsive.

Fast forward to a week, and I decide, why the fuck not, lemme spark it back up. (Lesson 1)

She responds back about busy-ness blah blah so I push for a meet. She obliges and we set a date. Out of pure coincidence, the day of the date, I get a text from a buddy saying he'd put me on a list for a hip-hop celebrity party and I can bring a +1 as long as it was a girl.

I text a plate as a lock-in and tell this new girl to ditch the old plans and to come to tonight's. I texted the plate just in case date flaked because there was no way in hell I was missing this party. (Lesson 2)

She ends up sticking to the plan despite her having to go out of the way to meet me and we meet a few hours in advance after I leave my office. (At this point I planted the seed by saying she's welcome to crash as long as we separate ourselves with a body pillow. She rejects it as expected, but all I needed was the acknowledgement.) We commute back together and the conversation is light and flirty. I bring her to my apartment so I can change, she digs the place, and I lay out the plan to her. She's beaming at this point.

We grab a drink at a local bar and the kino is subtle, but she knows my intentions. My buddy comes with his girl and we change venue to the party.

We both get in as our names are on the list. (Lesson 3)

Once in, we all grab a shot and I begin to mingle with everyone around. She's digging my knowledge about why the party is happening and some of the rare items being showcased there. (Lesson 4)

At one point, I'm trying to lock down a girl working there so I can get on the list for a painting being sold (great painting, extremely cheap, limited to a run of 23, but that's not for this sub) and she comes up to me and licks my neck while whispering in my ear "you're so fucking hot right now." I pull back with a grin and a mild look. (Lesson 5)

After some more talking, we kiss, but keep pulling back and the tension is rising. I get a text from another buddy that he's out at a nearby bar and to join him. My buddy with me and I bounce the group to the next bar. (Lesson 6)

After about 20 minutes, I realize it's getting late and I have a small window before she worries about timing. I tell her let's go back to my apartment because I have a killer Weeknd playlist (she loves the Weeknd) and I'd bring her back to the local train station after a bit. (Lesson 7)

We get back to my apartment and we start hooking up. I realize that the last train is about to leave and for her peace of mind, I tell her I'm driving her back (knowing full well it was gone). The next train didn't come back until early the next morning but once we got there she didn't give a fuck.

Back to my apartment. Full-blown LMR. I say nothing, but keep escalating. A switch flips and then shes begging me, to which I reply she's not ready. After some more teasing and foreplay, we get down to very rowdy session (dirty talk, choking, the works.)

After we finish, I cuddle her and she lays out so many redpill truths. She has over 2,000 matches, constant texts from orbiters (I saw the inbox), stories of her college past, dudes sleeping in her bed (but no hookups, lmao yeaaaa...), model friends and competitive nature, etc. (Lesson 8)

I bring her back early in the morning, pass out, and text her in the afternoon about "having a good time." (Lesson 9)

Conclusion

Lesson 1: Online and in-person, do not give up until a clear rejection. She unmatches/walks away/hard no. Half the time they don't know what the fuck they want. Don't take being Alpha Chad Man to the extreme and next her simply for not getting the response you want instantly. The red pill is a flexible tool box, not an extreme rule.

Lesson 2: Outcome independence mixed with abundance. I didn't give a fuck if she was coming or not, I had a plate down to go. Hell I would've gone alone because this event meant a ton to me. Honestly didn't even care to close as I had expected to kiss-close if we kept original plans due to shitty logistics of location.

Lesson 3: Social proof/value. Seeing this in person blew my fucking mind. Once she saw my name on the list and the manager shake my hand, her fucking eyes lit up.

Lesson 4: More abundance/outcome independence/social proof. Don't get complacent just because you got her to the venue. If you're with more than just her, let her work your group while you work strangers. She will become significantly more attracted. It doesn't hurt if she sees you flirting with other women.

Lesson 5: Don't go full-retard. Yes, at this point she bought in. Why not prolong the moment and get her from soaking wet to gushing? Go full-retard and risk killing the moment/attraction (not always but cautionary.) Play it fucking cool.

Lesson 6: Bounce locations. Do it early, do it often. The more you keep her moving, the more she'll have her feelings shaken up because she's experiencing different sounds/tastes/smells/sights. Girls live for the moment, so fucking taking advantage.

Lesson 7: Plausible Deniability. If you read my previous FR, you know that this is key. I've never gotten such non-resistance than this last time. She basically said FUCK YES when I dropped the hint.

Lesson 8: Comfort. I don't care how beta it is. It's been drilled here enough. Avoid the false rape charge. Cuddle her for a little time of your life instead of douching out and kicking her out. For me, she would've spent the night and gotten another round if she didn't have work at the crack of dawn. Also notice the hamster kicking into play here to tell me how wanted and hard to get she is.

Lesson 9: False-rape protection follow-up. As beta as you think it is, send the fucking I had fun text and archive your shit. I'd rather her see me as a pussy for five minutes than the guy she regrets the next day. Fuck that.

Bonus: I was her first tinder meet-up. She doesn't hook up on the first date. She's conservative. (Riiiight.) Let that hamster spin into hyperdrive. Make it clear that you don't judge and she can be comfortable with you. NEVER take ANYONE at FACE-VALUE. You'd be surprised at people's true nature.

I hope this really helps. I tried not to humblebrag and left the sexual details out.