Got cucked

jaredschaffer27 · 2017-03-10T05:26:44+00:00

You didn't get cucked. You finagled your way into the house of a woman who didn't want you there and then she fucked someone else. You got friendzoned. She wasn't your girlfriend or your plate. She wasn't even your ONS.

Depending on the situation when she rebuffed your advances in the club, you inserting yourself into her house and her couch was probably seen as desperate. No abundance at all in that move.

Will probably monk mode for a couple of months due to the situation.

Getting denied on one night shouldn't be that big a kick in the gut to you. You'll be fine.

FrancoB42 · 2017-03-10T05:31:33+00:00

Dude, you tricked her into letting you into her house. The very moment when she resisted your makeout was a big fucking red flag. Also when she denied you. No tricks dude. If a chick is not attracted, move to the next one. ABUNDANCE MENTALITY.

GR8AGN · 2017-03-10T04:36:10+00:00

Don't think too much into it. Shrug it off and move on to the next one. You won't win them all. 6'4 and only 72 kilos, you need to get that weight up. At that height, you need to be 90-100 kilos (200-220lbs) and women will flock to you in droves if your lean at that weight

KarmaEnthusiast · 2017-03-10T06:12:48+00:00

Define 'attempts' for makeout. If you were grinding then that to me says DTF. If you fuck it up from there you're clearly not responding appropriately to her signals. You most likely wanted permission to make the next step verbally when physically she's already given it through body contact. What you've then done is subconsciously asked her "do you want to be a slut?". Just man up, turn her towards you and take responsibility for the escalation. Say in her ear "You're way too fucking cute", if you get a smile then grab her face and make out with her. If you have that level of confidence already you don't need me to explain what to do from there.

stonepimpletilists · 2017-03-10T15:54:55+00:00

So we are at the club and i actually got hammered

she denied my attempts for makeouts.

My stars 6'4 , however 72 kilos due to food issues due depression, been lifting for a year and a half. I accept everything at this point.

I would believe you, except that you didn't. I see excuses, I see lack of ability to observe, and learn from your mistakes.

You didn't get cucked, you got valuable feedback, I only hope you're able to absorb it

Barvazon · 2017-03-10T06:47:00+00:00

You sound angry, desperate and creepy as fuck. Have you even read the side bar?

l0vewins · 2017-03-10T17:15:24+00:00

You put all your eggs in one basket. Waaay to much investment on her and probably subconsciously acted needy and she saw through you that you just wanted sex. Act less desperate, get more girls and don't give a shit about this little hump. This happens all the time to guys, in college.. It's nothing in your control. You don't claim her (or her pussy) bro, she just didn't choose you THAT night. No worries, keep going out and have fun.

Mckallidon · 2017-03-12T13:13:49+00:00

You didn't get cucked because she was never yours for a second. But you are a huge goddam cuck. Lurk moar.

Mars8 · 2017-03-11T09:42:22+00:00

Dude your problem is that you give them too much attention. Women love attention, they crave it. Think about it, women are the reason why social media sites thrive, they love to post photos of themselves so others can tell them how good looking they are, they go on dating sites (even if they have boyfriends)to see how many men will drool over them. They spend so much money on "fashion" and make-up to capture attention from men and other women.

If you give them that attention, and act as though they are the main attraction (or as everyone likes to call it "putting them on a pedestal") you have fulfilled their craving and they no longer need you, or at least until the next time they need to feel good about themselves. This is why so many men get friend zoned, they provide women with that feeling of being needed and chased after. They boost their ego by constantly pursuing them, doing romantic gestures for them, telling them how good looking they are, etc....All of this attention gives them the confidence they need to pursue the guy they are really attracted to.

Starve their ego. If that chick contacts you again or runs into you, treat her like shit, like if she disappeared tomorow you wouldn't even notice, otherwise they are just going to keep using you to boost their own ego.

ecosci · 2017-03-12T02:00:57+00:00

You were the middle relief set up guy and she called chad to close the game out plus he gets the win and you gotta pat on the back.

ciawarek · 2017-03-12T14:00:45+00:00

Dont go monk mode for some stupid bitch, even if you deserved it and especially if you deserved it, dont make the same mistake again, get over it and dont let it drag you down, shes not that important so you have to suffer , that is some blue pill crawling up to your head. On the other hand this sub is not for patting each others back when they drop the ball, mentioning monk mode is extremely blue pill, cause it looks like SHE OWNS YOUR LIFE AND SOUL.

UDT22 · 2017-03-13T07:20:53+00:00

It's better to be cucked than being butt fucked by some 300 lb dude named Bubba. If you bang her while she's drunk, that's rape and your ass would be in the slam being gang raped by a bunch of thugs.

LordTempramental · 2017-03-23T00:25:51+00:00

Dude, you should have demonstrated scarcity in the club.

After grinding when she refused to make out you should have talked to other girls. You got too drunk to fuck.

Remember, 2 choices 1) Get hammered 2) Pickup

Title	Got cucked
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Comments	22
Date	March 10, 2017 4:12 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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