So, i've been working on myself quite hard over the last 6 months. Mostly it's been working on body language and social skills.

I've found that I've gotten a lot more attention in regular settings. From damsels in distresses to gay guys asking for my number (lol).

I don't really think my appearance has changed all that much, I've just focussed on eliminating nuances of insecurity from the way I present myself. However, I'd say the change in me has been dramatic from an inner self transformation perspective.

I've also found that guys are challenging me more. So far I've ignored them but part of me wants to rise to them. They always do it when they've got safety in numbers or a clear get away. Also, they often do it when there's a female present.

Is this a normal thing, and why do they do it? I do MMA and I can handle myself pretty well, especially against anyone untrained.

Part of me wants to humiliate them but also part of me says to walk away from it.