How do I go on?

zuhbooze · 2017-12-12T06:31:02+00:00

How do you go on?

You don't. She's a coworker. Game someone else cowboy.

BobbyPeru · 2017-12-12T06:31:48+00:00

You had a window where the topic of sex was discussed and she touched your leg. That window closed. You didn’t make a move, so she saw you as beta and friendzoned you. Her signals couldn’t have been more clear

Since you’re asking for advice, I’ll tell you that is where you messed up. Work on closing it with another chick.

rporion · 2017-12-12T07:05:38+00:00

This is a question for AskTRP, and anyone who gives you advice is probably going to be banhammered for a few weeks.

Source: Was banhammered, multiple times.

ceo_greasyduck · 2017-12-12T11:52:32+00:00

Why is this in TRP and not AskTRP???

You have not swallowed anything, the fact that you’re even asking for help in this situation shows how beta you are.

She doesn’t like you, she wants you to orbit. The next steps are to soft-next her ASAP.

Be as civil as possible, maintain a pretense of friendship, ONLY because you’re coworkers. If you weren’t, you should hard-next.

So much oneitis in this post...

ItsYough123 · 2017-12-12T06:51:45+00:00

Pretty sure you didn't leave her with the impression that you're sexually dominant. If you were sexually dominant you wouldn't have froze up when she touched your leg. When she said 'you aren't interested in me' that was your cue to show her you were by kissing her (obviously that might depend on how she was saying that but if it's like how I think it was then she wanted you to take action instead of being a pussy with words. Or who knows, maybe she thought you were actually being creepy and it was her way of telling you to piss off, hard to tell without being there or knowing you both).

Having said that, she seems like a whore and I could see another opportunity arising for you if you both continue to drink together at parties. Up to you if you want to go down that messy route. IMO, I wouldn't think too much about it until you get in that kind of situation with her again. To me, it would be kind of a shitty thing to do and shows you lack a lot of options if you continue to pursue her though instead of just getting on with life and other girls though.

NazoXIII · 2017-12-12T08:10:28+00:00

You treat her like one of your boys, because buddy you are her friend.

From experience, words like cute, and adorable mean exactly what they sound like. Women find puppy's cute, women find babies cute, and if you fall in that category, I've got news for you... you should dread being called cute, it's womenese for unfuckable.

It also goes both ways though. Call a girl cute and it'll fuck with her self esteem, sure it's flattering, but no girl over 15 wants to be cute, they all want to be hot, especially to the opposite sex, they don't wear fuck me heels to be cute, they don't squeeze into dresses tighter than Joel Osteen's grip on his wallet to be called cute, nor do they don't cake on whore paint with that goal in mind.

Game other girls. And a few things, don't shit where you eat, jesus...

How can you say

I am the type of guy who focuses on one woman at time, I almost never had oneitis.

while essential making a "There's this one girl" post?

And finally

Also I know I need to stop flirting with and asking girls that have boyfriends

No the fuck you don't. You should try to game any girl you find attractive, boyfriend or not. It's not your relationship to care about honestly. You game her until she literally tells you to stop (and means it).

sleepkeeping · 2017-12-12T08:33:00+00:00

I count three red flags already. Go hang out with one of the other four billion women on the planet.

Categoricallyme · 2017-12-12T13:37:52+00:00

So you focus on one woman at a time but you don't have oneitis?

You also somehow magically know that her impression of you was that you are dominant sexually and in your relationships?

You are a contradictory mess. Go back to square 1.

PM_ME_UR_TECHNO_GRRL · 2017-12-12T16:22:18+00:00

I know you know, but gaming a coworker in today's environment is wanting trouble. No sympathy for you if you get fucked.

Title	How do I go on?
Author	Atell__
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	December 12, 2017 6:19 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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