How do I stop caring for her?

2014-11-25T00:09:44+00:00

You have oneitis for a woman who you shouldn't have it for.

No contact.

rporion · 2014-11-25T00:06:18+00:00

She was perfect, and promiscuous and lying about that.

Your ideas when it comes to "perfect" are interesting.

Drop her.

N0TH4PPY · 2014-11-25T00:56:41+00:00

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Mightaswellmakeone · 2014-11-25T04:13:16+00:00

It's interesting how deceptive people are to themselves about other people.

It's as if you went into a burger joint and you order a cheeseburger that you're starving for. Then the staff hands you a bowl of tofu. Do you claim it's the perfect cheeseburger except for the fact that, you know...it's a fucking bowl of tofu.

She's the perfect woman in every way except for the fact that, you know...she's a fucking lying whore.

crossroads95 · 2014-11-25T00:26:57+00:00

I'm still internalizing all of theredpill at the moment, and even i know that you should no contact her completely, It's going to look weird now because i assume you've carried on like this for a while.

I still yearn for my ex, she cheated on me too. I don't know why.

discard5cards · 2014-11-25T04:41:27+00:00

Think of it this way:

She cares for herself enough for the both of you :)

RedPillScare · 2014-11-25T01:36:26+00:00

The beat way to get over an old girlfriend is to get under a new one.

Seriously. Find a new plate. You aren't in love: you're addicted. She seems magical because you associate her with great orgasms.

Also, your expectations haven't been met. You want exclusivity from her. You're unlikely to find that very often. Read BlackDragon's ebooks and consider adjusting your stance.

no_ship · 2014-11-25T03:29:20+00:00

If you're going to follow the steps of removing her from your life. Stick to it. Dont break for at least 60days. If yozu can break free from her completely for 60 days you'll see why the inner you wanted to hurt her back and realize she's not worth your time.

Personal advice: 60day fast from her and a 60 day detox for yourself. Do better things, study/workout/engage in so be activities for 60days and clear your mind and body.

monsieurhire2 · 2014-11-25T05:54:48+00:00

Just think about how much her actions prove and demonstrate her utter lack of love for you, and then tell yourself that nobody deserves to be loved if they don't give equal love in return. Find someone else to have those feelings for. The time you waste mooning over her will be better spent pursuing someone else.

Troll_Fetish_ · 2014-11-25T01:02:56+00:00

oh, your little problems are just so important. there are real men fighting wars and building bridges and fixing engines, but you prissy millennial bitches are just so emotional and sensitive. Oh no! my important emotions hurt because the mean women don't want to have sex with me. boo hoo!!!

Grow a pair of testicles, you cock sucking faggot.

WhereRtheAnswersSway · 2014-11-25T01:40:37+00:00

No one is going to love you more then you love yourself. if you fall in love with someone who treated you like you were disposable, it's probably because you like her idea of you more then your idea of yourself.

never forget that.

scarletspider3 · 2014-11-25T15:04:53+00:00

LEAVE HER ALONE!! Your just lying to yourself and trying to give your self a reason to stay with her. You can't use somebody for sex that you have feeling for. It's a trap that alot of guys fall into.

fnordsnord · 2014-11-25T16:30:12+00:00

You have to go zero contact. Once you've got The Feels, you're not going to be able to dial it back. If she's promiscuous and lying to you, she's not LTR material.

Go zero contact. To help stop thinking about her, try to imagine all the cocks she's dragged her lips over.

BlackHeart89 · 2014-11-25T21:22:59+00:00

You need to accept that she's a whore.
You need to accept that she will continue this trend until it bores her. And at any point, she may want to start back.
You need to accept that it will never work out for you two in a LTR.
You need to accept that this is who she is.

Once you accept all of that, everything else will fall into place. But definitely minimize contact. I had to stop all sexual activity with my ex until I stopped giving a fuck about her. With time, sex with other women will be just as great.

You don't love her. You love what you thought she was. What you thought she was is a figment of your imagination.

lolLaxer · 2014-11-25T15:51:37+00:00

When we say leave her/ ignore her your first instinct is to think that we don't understand the situation. We do, we are just providing a purely objective view for your best course of action.

smokingmonkey420 · 2014-11-25T02:23:09+00:00

AWALT. You're not going to find a woman that's 100% loyal these days. They're going to cheat eventually so it shouldn't even come as a shock to you. Just enjoy the good times while you can.

Relevantex · 2014-11-25T00:22:48+00:00

She's your kryptonite. Delete her from your life for good.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-11-25T03:04:00+00:00

You don't get exclusive with plates. You can keep fucking her so long as you are not exclusive.

You can train yourself to care less about her by imagining her bent over taking somebodies cock and then imagine that gooey film you feel inside her is actually somebodies cum. If that doesn't work, imagine the other cocks she sucked and conjure up the oral and olfactory flavor of semen, spit, and shame the next time you kiss her.

Title	How do I stop caring for her?
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	0
Comments	22
Date	November 25, 2014 12:01 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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