How does someone RP keep their emotions in check when spinning plates?

phaseonx11 · 2013-10-27T22:53:45+00:00

This is odd, but it's something I learned helps:

When you take a shower, turn it as cold as it'll go and just let it hit your head first and then put the rest of your body under the stream. It's an uncomfortable sensation and you will want to make "hyperventilating" motions but you must resist and not squirm.

This helps to rid yourself of any emotion you might be feeling at the moment, simply by using your mind. Eventually, you can train yourself into using this process to keep cool in other situations. It's sort of like... an instant return to baseline. Helps you stay clear headed and calm.

EleriumAvenger · 2013-10-27T22:32:25+00:00

Just keep in the back of your mind that these woman are not your girlfriend, they are not your friends and they are not the kind of woman you would have meet your family. they are to use for sexual gratification, short term company and to raise your SMV. Emotional connections are for family, old friends and pets.

TheeRyanGrey · 2013-10-28T00:09:23+00:00

That attachment shit is something you gotta work on, man. I can't tell you how you should do it, only that you really, really need to.

Especially if she's only spun once.

phaseonx11 · 2013-10-28T05:00:19+00:00

Personally, I believe it is best to mitigate this by keeping your distance and gauging how often you see her from the beginning and secondly I suggest having options. It's too late to fix now, you're better off just cutting line and moving onto other plates. Not only did you fuck up by failing her shit test with flaming colors (I would NEVER have let her get away with that. I would have told her to fuck off right then and there, lol. One thing is being non-exclusive. Another is a complete lack of respect) and not standing up for yourself, you lost your frame and now you're left as an orbiter (with benefits, but still. An orbiter. Only one step up from a friendzoned chump) Don't feel like you're "losing" her or that you "have to end things on even terms." The latter sounds a little childish to me. Remember that you are a human. You cannot exist without emotions, for they form a very large part of what is the human experience. What you CAN control is how you react to those emotions.

Woman are by no means scarce, neither is this woman any sort of commodity. You're not losing dick shit, lol. It's just a girl who's gaming the shit out of you. You are literally playing into her game exactly as she wants you to... YOU are GIVING HER absolute control. Woman are by no means scarce, neither is this woman any sort of commodity.

You know this to be true but I am sure a part of you is attempting to revert you to your old ways of thinking (supplicating,giving too much validation, bluepilling,etc). Simply remember, these old ways haven't worked for you and they will certainly not start now. Just be like "FUCK IT! I got better shit to do with my time than to deal with your BS". Talk to other woman. Talk to a lot more woman. Havings options is what stops you from catching feelings (IMO) because the idea that you're getting to know a lot of girls constantly sort of helps desensitize you to stuff like this. Never let yourself get too deep, always have the thought in the back of your mind. There are others. There will ALWAYS be others.

Deansdale · 2013-10-28T11:32:29+00:00

How do you keep your emotions from creeping into this, maintain detachment

I don't think you should. It makes you less human. Deal with them instead of suppressing. Believe it or not, the ultimate goal of the red pill is happiness, which involves having good emotions.

magicalbird · 2013-10-27T23:42:23+00:00

It's okay to be attached because it comes from genetic disposition. You have to not act upon those attached feelings by spinning the other plate[s] or finding something more important to do.

Title	How does someone RP keep their emotions in check when spinning plates?
Author	Thoughtcrime85
Upvotes	10
Comments	34
Date	October 27, 2013 9:12 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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